Stop Translating in Your Head — Do THIS Instead
Go Natural English - Real Life English with Gabby
0:00 If you still struggle to think 100% in English, then this is for you.
0:06 If you're new here, hi, I'm Gabby,
0:08 your American English fluency coach here at Go Natural English.
0:12 And today we're talking about something
0:15 that can completely change your English fluency.
0:19 Stop translating in your head and do this instead.
0:24 Maybe this happens to you.
0:26 Someone asks you a simple question in English and inside your brain,
0:31 there's a whole emergency meeting happening.
0:33 You hear English, you translate it into your native language,
0:37 and you think of your answer in your native language,
0:41 you translate it back into English, then you check the grammar,
0:45 then maybe you wonder, you doubt yourself, is this natural?
0:50 Is this how people really speak in real life or is this just...
0:53 what I learned in my textbook,
0:56 but by the time you're ready to answer, the conversation has already moved on.
1:01 You lost your chance.
1:03 If that sounds familiar, you are not the problem.
1:08 You're not bad at English.
1:09 You just were taught the wrong way.
1:11 You're using a process that you learned in your classroom
1:16 from your textbook that is too slow for real conversation.
1:21 So today, I'm going to show you how to start thinking more directly in English.
1:26 Not by forcing your brain, not by memorizing more grammar rules,
1:31 but by building an English environment around your real life.
1:36 And I think this is actually really fun because here's the truth.
1:41 You don't start thinking in English by translating faster.
1:46 It's always going to slow you down.
1:48 You start thinking in English by living more of your life through English.
1:54 So here, the obstacle is the way.
1:57 The obstacle, English fluency, is the way.
2:01 Living your life through English is the way to fluency.
2:05 So now I'm gonna share concrete,
2:08 specific examples that you can use to start thinking in English today.
2:14 This is going to improve your fluency so much, and I'm so excited.
2:17 Just before we jump in, I want to let you know about a special project that I've
2:23 started and I want to invite you to join and go deeper in your fluency with me.
2:29 If you enjoy these free lessons and you want daily private English lessons,
2:35 join as a YouTube channel member or a private fluency podcast member,
2:41 whichever you prefer.
2:42 Some people prefer watching on YouTube.
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2:47 The link is in the description.
2:50 You'll get short, about 15 to 20 minute daily private
2:54 English lessons designed to help you immerse yourself in real English.
2:59 They're conversational lessons with real learning and everyone,
3:03 we do talk about vocabulary to expand
3:07 the way you express yourself and real life English.
3:12 This will help you to start thinking in English more naturally.
3:16 And there's no big commitment.
3:17 You can just try it for a month and see for yourself.
3:21 Also, we've kept this super affordable because we want to help as many
3:26 people as possible around the world to improve their fluency and confidence.
3:31 So this is honestly one of the best
3:33 ways to make English part of your everyday life.
3:36 It's easy.
3:37 It's simple.
3:38 All you have to do is watch along with the videos
3:41 that I make for you and repeat after me.
3:44 Just copy and repeat me.
3:46 Repeat after me.
3:47 Even if you're busy, you can do this.
3:50 Okay.
3:50 So now let's talk about why translation keeps you stuck.
3:55 This is important to understand the problem.
3:58 Most people learning English were trained
4:01 to treat English like a school subject.
4:04 You study vocabulary, you memorize grammar rules, you translate sentences,
4:08 you fill in the blanks, you answer textbook questions.
4:13 Can you relate to any of this?
4:14 Did you have to do this?
4:17 All of that can help you build a solid foundation,
4:21 but real English conversations do not sound like a textbook.
4:25 And when you go from the classroom and your textbook to real life English,
4:30 you can feel overwhelmed, stressed out, and honestly feel kind of bad
4:35 about your English because there is a big gap.
4:38 But again, it's not your fault.
4:41 See, native speakers do not usually speak like your teacher.
4:45 And that's why I'm here to help you understand how to bridge
4:49 that gap between your old English class and real life English now.
4:54 So your teacher might say, for example, what are you doing?
4:59 But in real life, especially in casual American English,
5:02 people often say, what are you doing?
5:04 Or what are you up to?
5:07 Or even what you doing?
5:09 These are all ways to ask the same
5:11 thing that you might not have heard or learned,
5:15 but this is important to start getting familiar with how natives really speak.
5:19 If your brain is waiting to hear that perfect, clear textbook English,
5:24 you may not recognize real life English when you hear it.
5:28 That's one reason you feel like I know English,
5:32 but I still can't understand people.
5:35 You may know the clean version of English.
5:38 The real life gives you the connected version.
5:43 So let's compare.
5:45 Textbook English.
5:47 What are you going to do?
5:50 Real spoken English.
5:51 What are you going to do?
5:53 Textbook English.
5:55 I do not know.
5:57 Real spoken English.
5:59 I don't know.
5:59 Textbook English.
6:01 Did you eat yet?
6:04 Real spoken English.
6:06 Geet yet?
6:07 That one sounds funny, but yes, some people really do say it that way.
6:11 Textbook English.
6:13 Do you want to?
6:16 Real spoken English.
6:18 You wanna?
6:19 Textbook English.
6:20 I am going to.
6:22 Real spoken English.
6:24 I'm gonna.
6:25 Now I'm not saying you always need to speak this casually,
6:28 but you absolutely need to understand it.
6:31 Because if you only study perfect textbook English,
6:34 Real English will sound blurry, messy, confusing, and too fast.
6:39 But it's not random.
6:41 It has patterns.
6:42 Native speakers connect words.
6:44 We reduce sounds.
6:46 We drop sounds altogether.
6:48 We blend words together.
6:50 So part of thinking in English is training
6:52 your brain to recognize English as it is actually spoken,
6:56 as you hear it, not just as it is written and as you know how to read it.
7:02 So here's the big mindset shift for today.
7:06 Fluency is not translation.
7:09 Fluency is direct connection.
7:12 You want to connect an English word with the real meaning,
7:17 an English phrase with the feeling, an English sound with the situation,
7:22 an English expression with real life use, not English to your native language
7:28 to the meaning to your native language to English.
7:32 So that middle step is what slows you down.
7:36 So instead of asking,
7:37 how do I translate this or how do I say this in my native language?
7:41 Ask, when would I use this in English?
7:45 For example, don't just translate, I'm running late.
7:49 That could mean something very different
7:52 if we translate this directly, literally.
7:55 Connected to the situation, you're leaving the house, you're stuck in traffic.
8:02 You're texting someone, you're five minutes behind schedule,
8:05 that's when you say, I'm running late.
8:09 Now the phrase is not just a translation, it's connected to your real life.
8:14 That's how you start thinking in English,
8:17 connecting real life phrases with real life situations.
8:21 So now maybe you've heard people say, just immerse yourself in English,
8:25 and maybe you think, okay, Gabby, but I don't live in the United States.
8:30 I don't have English speaking friends.
8:32 I don't work in English all day.
8:34 It's okay.
8:35 I get it.
8:36 Immersion does not have to mean moving to another country.
8:39 Immersion means creating more English contact points throughout your day.
8:44 And I think this can be fun.
8:46 I want you to remember this phrase, start slow and grow.
8:51 You don't need to change your whole life overnight.
8:54 Start with small, repeatable habits.
8:57 Five minutes of journaling.
8:59 listening to a song in English, one Netflix scene with English subtitles,
9:06 one voice note to yourself, one short conversation,
9:10 one private podcast lesson a day.
9:13 The goal is not to study English for three hours once a week.
9:17 The goal is to touch English every day
9:21 in ways that feel meaningful, meaningful to you.
9:24 Now, let me teach you five useful phrases for this topic
9:28 because even as we talk about learning to think in English,
9:33 we can improve your vocabulary.
9:35 So number one, of course, think in English.
9:38 This means you connect ideas directly in English without translating every word.
9:44 For example, and please repeat after me.
9:47 I'm trying to think in English instead of translating everything.
9:51 Next, real life English.
9:54 This means English as people actually use it in normal conversations.
9:58 For example, I want to understand real life English, not just textbook English.
10:03 Next, word for word translation.
10:07 This means translating each individual word
10:10 instead of understanding the whole idea.
10:13 For example, word for word translation makes me speak too slowly.
10:18 Next, daily immersion.
10:20 This means surrounding yourself with English a little bit every day.
10:25 For example, daily immersion helps my brain get used to English.
10:30 Next, natural expression.
10:32 This is a phrase that sounds normal to native speakers.
10:36 For example, instead of translating from my language,
10:40 I want to learn natural expressions.
10:43 Now, repeat after me.
10:45 I want to think in English.
10:47 I want to understand real life English.
10:50 Moving away from word for word translation.
10:54 Daily immersion helps me improve.
10:56 I'm learning natural expressions.
10:59 Beautiful.
11:00 Great job.
11:01 Now let's learn five phrasal verbs that connect beautifully to this topic.
11:08 First, to pick up.
11:10 Now this has many meanings,
11:13 but today we're talking about the meaning to learn something naturally.
11:18 often without formal study.
11:21 For example, you can pick up natural English by listening every day.
11:26 This is what children do.
11:28 They pick up language from hearing it again and again.
11:32 Next, get used to, to become comfortable with something over time.
11:38 For example, at first fast English sounds difficult, but you'll get used to it.
11:44 This is huge.
11:45 You don't need to understand everything in English immediately.
11:49 You need repeated exposure.
11:51 Next, tune in means to listen or pay attention, especially to audio or video.
11:59 For example, tune into English podcasts while you're cooking or walking.
12:04 Next, speak up to say something more clearly, confidently or publicly.
12:11 For example, Creating a private podcast can help you speak up in English.
12:18 To keep up with means to follow or understand something that's moving quickly.
12:25 For example, at first it's hard to keep
12:28 up with native speakers, but it gets easier.
12:30 Now repeat after me.
12:32 I can pick up English naturally.
12:35 I'm getting used to fast English.
12:38 I tune in every day.
12:40 I'm learning to speak up.
12:42 I can keep up with real conversations.
12:46 Excellent.
12:47 I love this for you.
12:49 Now, here's one of the most important points in this whole episode.
12:53 Do not just study English.
12:55 Do things through English.
12:58 There's a big, big difference.
13:00 Studying English is when English is the subject.
13:04 You're solely focused on English.
13:07 Doing life through English is when English becomes the tool.
13:12 For example, instead of only writing practice sentences in a notebook,
13:16 write a real letter in English.
13:18 You could write to a politician about an issue you care about.
13:22 You could write to an organization you support.
13:25 You could write letters to seniors in assisted
13:28 living who may not have family visiting them.
13:31 You could write encouraging notes to people who are lonely.
13:35 You could write to inmates through a legitimate,
13:38 safe letter writing program if that's something meaningful to you.
13:42 I'm just sharing these examples as ways that you
13:46 can use English in real life as a tool and it will help you develop your fluency
13:52 and give you meaning and motivation while you do it.
13:56 Now, English is not just an exercise.
13:58 English is helping you express your values.
14:01 That is powerful because your brain
14:05 remembers language better when there's emotion,
14:08 purpose, and real meaning attached to it.
14:12 Now let's talk about speaking.
14:14 A lot of learners say, I don't have anyone to practice with.
14:18 And I understand that is a real challenge,
14:21 but I also want to gently challenge you.
14:25 You can create reasons to speak.
14:27 You could start a YouTube channel in English.
14:31 It doesn't have to be public at first.
14:32 You can make all the videos private.
14:35 You could start a podcast in English and not publish it until you're ready.
14:40 You could record voice notes to yourself.
14:44 You could explain your day in English.
14:47 You could review a book, a movie,
14:49 a recipe, a news story, or personal experience.
14:53 The point is, at this level, give yourself a reason to keep speaking.
14:58 Don't wait for an assignment from your teacher.
15:01 In fact, I want to empower you through these lessons
15:04 to give you ideas to use English in the real world.
15:08 even if you don't feel quite ready yet.
15:11 This might be the push or the sign that you've been waiting for.
15:15 If you're only waiting for the perfect conversation partner,
15:19 you may wait forever.
15:22 But if you start speaking privately or publicly,
15:25 you train your mouth, your brain and your confidence.
15:29 And later when a real conversation happens, your English is already warmed up.
15:34 So let's build what I call your immersion ladder.
15:39 You don't need to jump from textbook
15:42 exercises to full speed native conversations overnight.
15:44 That's too much pressure.
15:46 Instead, climb the ladder step by step.
15:49 Step one, journaling.
15:51 Write three sentences a day in English,
15:54 in a notebook, on your phone, in a word doc.
15:58 For example, today I feel a little tired,
16:02 but I'm proud of myself because I practiced English.
16:06 Step two, music.
16:08 Listen to songs that you like in English.
16:11 Look up the lyrics.
16:12 Sing along.
16:14 I did this a lot when I was learning Spanish.
16:16 It was a huge help.
16:18 Music helps with rhythm, pronunciation, connected speech, and emotional memory.
16:25 Step three, Netflix or YouTube.
16:28 Watch short clips in English.
16:30 Don't try to understand the whole movie perfectly, but watch one scene.
16:35 Repeat one line.
16:37 Notice how people really speak.
16:40 And step four, private speaking practice.
16:43 Record yourself answering simple questions.
16:46 For example, what did I do today?
16:49 What am I looking forward to?
16:51 What is one thing I care about?
16:53 And step five, real conversations.
16:57 Talk with people online, in a class,
17:00 in a community, while traveling or in your workplace.
17:04 Step six, travel or routine change.
17:07 If possible, take a trip where you can practice
17:10 English outside your normal routine in your native language.
17:13 It doesn't have to be a huge, expensive trip.
17:16 Even a short trip, a conference, a retreat, a meetup,
17:22 or a local intentional event that you're interested in can help.
17:28 Or if you're traveling internationally, go to a local event there.
17:32 The key is to put yourself in a situation
17:36 where English becomes useful, not just academic.
17:40 It's not just about the grades.
17:42 It's about how you and use English in real life.
17:46 So this is exactly why I created Private Daily Lessons.
17:51 If you want help making English part of your daily life,
17:55 join as a YouTube channel member or a Private Fluency Podcast member.
17:59 The link is in the description.
18:01 You'll get daily private English lessons about 15 minutes
18:05 a day so you can immerse yourself in real English consistently.
18:10 This is for you if you want to think in English,
18:14 understand natural American English,
18:15 and build fluency without needing to sit down with a textbook for hours.
18:20 No commitment.
18:21 Try it for a month and see for yourself.
18:24 Okay, now let's talk about what this sounds like in real life.
18:28 Let's compare the translating version and the natural version.
18:32 So imagine someone asks, what are you up to this weekend?
18:36 A translating answer might sound like,
18:38 I will make the cleaning of my house and maybe I will see a movie.
18:43 It's understandable, but it sounds translated.
18:46 Very strange.
18:48 A more natural answer,
18:49 I'm probably going to clean up around the house and maybe watch a movie.
18:54 Notice, clean up around the house.
18:57 Probably going to.
18:58 Watch a movie.
19:00 Very normal, very natural.
19:03 Another example.
19:04 What are you doing later?
19:06 Textbook brain hears, what are you doing later?
19:11 Natural answer.
19:13 Not much.
19:14 I might grab a dinner with a friend or I'm just
19:18 taking it easy tonight or I'm catching up on some work.
19:21 Now let's practice those.
19:23 Not much.
19:24 I might grab dinner with a friend.
19:26 I'm just taking it easy tonight.
19:28 I'm catching up on some work.
19:30 These are the kind of phrases you want to absorb as whole chunks.
19:35 Don't translate every word.
19:37 Let the whole phrase speak for you.
19:41 Learn the whole phrase connected to the situation.
19:45 Now here's a big fluency tip.
19:48 Think in chunks, not individual words.
19:51 A chunk is a group of words that native speakers commonly use together.
19:55 For example, I'm running late.
19:58 I'll get back to you.
19:59 That makes sense.
20:00 I'm looking forward to it.
20:02 Let me think about it.
20:03 I'm not sure yet.
20:04 I'm trying to figure it out.
20:06 I didn't catch that.
20:08 What are you up to?
20:09 I'm taking it easy.
20:10 When you learn chunks, you don't have to build every sentence from zero.
20:15 You can pull a phrase from memory and use it.
20:18 That's how real fluency feels.
20:21 It's not perfect grammar construction every time.
20:24 from scratch, from zero, it's having useful language ready when you need it.
20:29 So instead of studying one word at a time, like late, learn I'm running late.
20:36 Instead of studying the word understand, learn that makes sense.
20:41 Instead of studying one word like busy, learn I've got a lot going on.
20:47 That is real English.
20:49 So let me tell you a quick personal story.
20:52 When I was learning Portuguese, I remember feeling frustrated because I
20:56 could understand my teachers pretty well.
20:58 They spoke clearly, they used organized sentences, they slowed down for me,
21:02 and I thought, okay, I'm getting good at this.
21:05 Then I went outside into real life and suddenly I felt like I knew nothing.
21:11 People were speaking fast, they were using slang,
21:14 they were cutting words, they were laughing, they were talking.
21:19 over each other and I remember thinking wait, did I study the wrong language?
21:24 But I didn't study the wrong language.
21:26 I'd studied the classroom version and now I needed the real life version.
21:32 So I started listening more.
21:34 I paid attention to repeated phrases.
21:37 I copied what people actually said.
21:40 I stopped trying to translate every single
21:43 word and slowly things started to click.
21:47 Not all at once, but little by little.
21:49 And that is what I want for you.
21:52 So don't be discouraged if real English feels fast.
21:55 It's not a sign that you're failing.
21:57 It's a sign that you're ready for the next level.
22:00 Now let's practice.
22:02 Repeat after me.
22:04 I don't need to translate every word.
22:07 I can connect English directly to meaning.
22:10 I'm learning real life English.
22:13 I'm getting used to fast English.
22:16 I can pick up natural phrases by listening every day.
22:20 I'm going to start slow and grow.
22:23 I can make English part of my daily life.
22:26 I don't just study English.
22:27 I do life through English.
22:30 I can write, speak, listen, and think in English every day.
22:34 My fluency is growing one day at a time.
22:38 Beautiful.
22:39 Now let's make this practical.
22:42 Here's your challenge for the next seven days.
22:45 Every day, do one small thing through English.
22:49 Write three sentences in English about your day.
22:52 Listen to one song in English and read the lyrics.
22:55 Watch one short YouTube video or a Netflix scene in English.
23:01 Record a one minute voice note in English.
23:05 Write a letter, comment, email,
23:07 or message in English about something you care about.
23:12 Repeat five natural phrases out loud.
23:15 Have one real conversation, even if it's short.
23:19 So do one of these things each day.
23:22 Those were seven activities.
23:24 You can do one each day for the next seven days.
23:28 And remember, you're not trying to be perfect.
23:30 You're training your brain to connect English with your real life.
23:33 That's how you stop translating.
23:36 So let's review what we learned today.
23:38 You can expect native speakers to sound like real life English,
23:44 not like your teacher or your textbook.
23:46 In real life, people don't always say, what are you doing?
23:50 They say, what are you doing?
23:52 So if you want to understand real English, you need real English input.
23:57 To think in English, you must immerse yourself in English,
24:00 but start slow and grow.
24:02 Use journaling, music, Netflix, YouTube, podcasts,
24:05 voice notes, real conversations, and travel when possible.
24:10 Don't just study English, make English a part of your daily life.
24:14 Write through English, speak through English,
24:17 listen through English, think through English,
24:20 create through English, and most importantly,
24:24 learn chunks, not just individual words.
24:27 This is how your English becomes faster, smoother, and more natural.
24:32 I want to leave you with this thought.
24:34 You do not become fluent by translating perfectly.
24:38 You become fluent by living imperfectly through English every day.
24:43 So take the pressure off.
24:45 You don't have to understand every word.
24:47 You don't have to speak perfectly.
24:49 You don't have to sound like a native speaker tomorrow,
24:52 but you can take one small step today.
24:55 One sentence, one song, one voice note, one conversation,
25:00 one private lesson, one real life moment in English.
25:05 This is how fluency grows.
25:08 If you want daily support with this join as a YouTube channel member
25:13 or a private fluency podcast member The link is in the description You'll
25:18 get daily private English lessons about 15 minutes a day to help you
25:23 immerse yourself in English Understand natural
25:25 American English and start thinking in English.
25:28 There's no commitment.
25:29 Try it for a month and see for yourself I'm Gabby from go
25:34 natural English And thank you so much for watching and learning with me today.
25:38 So in the next episode, we'll keep building your real life fluency.
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