Coffee and Girl Talk...

Tarayummy

0:00 Hey guys, it's me Tara and today we are sitting in the car again and I'm

0:03 talking to you because every so often I feel as if though I need to do that.

0:07 But first, I was going to say but first coffee,

0:09 but that is like the most millennial[ __] I think I've ever

0:13 said slash has come out of my mouth and I'm not a millennial.

0:15 Okay, here's the coffee I got.

0:16 Are you freaking kidding me?

0:18 Listen, I've been obsessed with this coffee for like 3 weeks,

0:24 maybe more, maybe four weeks.

0:25 So much so, guys, take a peek at this.

0:27 Behind my phone case, I have a punch card.

0:31 This is my second punch card, okay, that I've used,

0:33 which is buy 10 coffees and the 11th is on us.

0:37 And I did.

0:38 And and I have a receipt at my house with two other punches on it,

0:40 which means I've had more than more than like 14 coffees.

0:43 15?

0:44 I'm not doing the math, but I have had more than like 15 coffees from here.

0:47 And I don't come every day,

0:48 which means I've been coming here for a couple weeks now.

0:50 And I love it.

0:51 When I like become obsessed with a coffee shop or like a coffee,

0:54 and I, by the way, have never tried anything else from there.

0:56 only get this like caramel cream top thing and it's so good.

1:02 I feel like since I've sat down and talked to you guys,

1:04 there's been so much to talk about.

1:06 Every time I have like a late night thought,

1:07 I write it down in my notes and I keep it for when I want to talk

1:10 to you guys about stuff because sometimes we

1:13 just simply run out of things to talk about.

1:14 But not in this brain cuz this brain's always going.

1:17 Okay, first things first.

1:18 Right now it's like end of January and everywhere

1:22 in the United States pretty much has snow except for Los Angeles.

1:26 And I have never been so giddy in my life about the weather.

1:31 I'm so happy.

1:32 As you guys know, I'm sure by now if you

1:34 know me or know my videos that I like being tan.

1:37 I like basking in the sun.

1:38 I like being in a bikini.

1:39 I like being shorts and a tank top.

1:41 I'm wearing a tube top in January, guys.

1:42 I think this video comes out in February,

1:44 but January, February, there's snow in most states right now.

1:49 When I was in the coffee shop, this isn't me being a[ __] hater.

1:52 Like, I don't even know if I should get into detail about this.

1:55 There was a couple in front of me and they seemed like a sweet couple.

1:58 They were very nice, but they wouldn't keep their hands off each other.

2:02 I'm all for PDA.

2:04 Wait, no, I'm not.

2:04 I don't like PDA.

2:06 Personally, for me, I'm all for if someone else wants to do PDA and like,

2:09 you know, like that's their cup of tea.

2:11 It's not my cup of tea.

2:12 I have noticed that when I'm like obsessed with a guy,

2:15 I don't know how to explain it, okay?

2:17 It's like I can take PDA like a handhold a hand on the shoulder,

2:20 but when it gets more than that, like when I'm seeing your head

2:23 canoodling in the other person's neck

2:25 and like basically like like licking their neck, like that's enough for me.

2:28 And I'm not even talking like personally, like I don't want to see it either.

2:31 And at first I was like, you know, I was like with a friend.

2:33 I'm like maybe I'm just bitter.

2:34 But they're in a very loving happy relationship and they were like,

2:36 no, that's[ __] disgusting.

2:38 Like I get it.

2:38 So, I don't know if it's like a me thing

2:40 or I just like think PDA should be a little less okay.

2:44 Like I think that I don't know.

2:45 I can't tell if I'm bitter or not because

2:47 like do I think being in a relationship is cringe.

2:49 Like kind of kind of like I'm sorry.

2:52 I'm sorry.

2:53 I'm sorry.

2:53 I'm sure people are happy and like I'm so happy for them.

2:55 And I'm sure if I'm ever in a relationship I'll

2:57 be so happy and I won't be like this is cringe.

3:00 But right now I'm at a point in my life where

3:01 I look at a couple and I'm like that's[ __] cringe.

3:03 Like what do you mean you love each other?

3:06 I don't know.

3:07 I don't know.

3:08 But that's not part of the PDA thing.

3:09 Like if you're in a situationship and you're doing some PDA out in public,

3:12 like if it's like a handhold, you know, a hand on the shoulder,

3:16 maybe like a stroke of the head, like that's fine.

3:18 I'm talking like making out in public.

3:20 Like please don't.

3:20 Unless you're like at a club and everyone's drunk around you.

3:23 Do not be making out in front of me.

3:24 Like I can't take it.

3:25 I'll literally just be like, "That's[ __] disgusting.

3:27 I don't know what you guys need to like

3:28 keep it a[ __] room." You know what I mean?

3:31 And like I'm pretty like non-judgmental and like open

3:34 to everyone being themselves and doing what makes them happy.

3:37 But I think PDA is where I draw my line.

3:39 Yeah, whatever.

3:39 If you guys think I'm bitter, you guys think I'm bitter.

3:41 But that's how I feel right now.

3:42 But you know what?

3:43 That's how I've always felt when I was in love and in a relationship.

3:46 I still didn't[ __] like PDA.

3:48 I was madly in love.

3:49 I was so happy.

3:51 Don't like PDA.

3:52 Don't[ __] touch me in public.

3:53 Like a little is fine, but like I don't know.

3:55 I just wouldn't I don't I don't think I'd even kiss on camera really.

3:58 Like it's just like not my thing.

4:00 Pause.

4:01 I have kissed someone on camera.

4:05 I was drunk.

4:06 That's my excuse.

4:08 It made it made it in a video,

4:10 but I was definitely drunk, so it doesn't matter, you know?

4:13 That's my thing.

4:14 It's like that's where that's where it's fine.

4:16 I think a club is fine.

4:17 I think a club or a bar or somewhere like nightifey is fine.

4:20 But it's[ __] 10:00 a.m.

4:21 I'm getting a coffee.

4:22 I don't need to see the residue of the sex you had last night in front of me.

4:26 I'm sorry.

4:27 I'm sorry.

4:27 I don't want to see it.

4:29 That's what it is, though, you guys.

4:31 It's the remnants of what happened in this morning

4:33 or last night in the bedroom trickling into the coffee shop.

4:36 Keep it at home.

4:37 Make your coffee at home.

4:38 Be so loving to each other at home.

4:41 I don't need to see you swap spits before I drink my caramel cream top.

4:45 Thank you.

4:47 Speaking of significant others, [sighs] I have been kind of thinking to myself

4:53 in my life in my 25 years of living,

4:56 I have definitely been with very gorgeous people.

5:00 I have and I've noticed looking back that I'm kind of over the gorgeous era.

5:06 Like I don't care if someone's gorgeous anymore.

5:08 I just kind of want them to have aura.

5:10 Do you know what I mean?

5:11 Like I feel like I don't like a guy especially that knows they're beautiful.

5:16 Like a girl can know they're beautiful and that's okay.

5:18 But when a man knows that they're beautiful,

5:20 something about their aura goes away.

5:22 versus like there is men that I think are so hot.

5:24 Even if they're not conventionally attractive

5:26 and it's just something about their aura

5:29 and the way they carry themselves and like maybe it's the living,

5:32 maybe it's what they do for a living.

5:33 It's just something about it is so[ __] sexy.

5:35 Like I recently tweeted,

5:36 "Is he hot or is he just on stage?" I

5:38 don't know and I'm not in the place to tell you.

5:40 Like if he's on stage and he you think that that person is hot, it's their aura.

5:43 And so I think I've come to the conclusion that like

5:45 a man doesn't need to be necessarily sexy for them to be sexy.

5:48 You know what I mean?

5:48 You don't have to look at them and be like they're so hot.

5:50 because been there, done that.

5:51 And I'm telling you, those guys are never good news.

5:53 Sometimes they are that it's it's it's definitely situational,

5:57 but for the most part, those men aren't actually gorgeous on the inside,

6:02 but a man that has a lot of aura, [screaming] you know,

6:06 it's just like, get me out of my cage, you know?

6:11 And I can't even give you guys examples

6:12 of that because this is going to hundreds

6:14 of thousands of millions of people to watch

6:16 and I know you guys are going to tag them.

6:18 So I can't like I can't even like give you an example.

6:22 Okay, but you guys know what I mean, right?

6:23 Like I'm trying to give an okay, I'm trying to give like a generic example.

6:27 Okay, let's say there's a guy that's a model and he's super gorgeous,

6:30 like so obviously handsome, right?

6:32 And then there's a guy who's like, if that guy's a 10 out of 10 looks-wise,

6:35 there's a guy that's like a seven out of 10,

6:37 but he's on stage and he's playing guitar

6:39 and he's just like knows what he's doing,

6:41 like that guy is sexier because he has that aura about him.

6:44 You know what I mean?

6:45 Even if it's a model that isn't like super sexy,

6:47 like so generically handsome, but they have that aura about them.

6:50 That's that's the vibe I like.

6:51 Do you know who has aura who's h by the way

6:54 happily married and I think that their relationship is very sweet,

6:57 they have kids, is Patty the BD.

7:00 That's a man with[ __] aura.

7:01 Okay.

7:02 And I don't know if it's his living like it's the fact that he like fights

7:07 or he's like a sports guy or because I've never been into like a sports guy.

7:12 Like that's not although that that does give aura.

7:14 I think it just depends, right?

7:15 I think it might be the accent.

7:16 I'm a scouter.

7:17 We don't get knocked out.

7:19 An accent can be aura in itself cuz like I'm obviously from America.

7:22 I obviously have like a valley girl accent.

7:24 That's like no aura in my opinion.

7:25 But you know, someone from not here could

7:27 might think that my valley girl accent has aura.

7:30 I think his Scouse accent has aura.

7:33 Like I like literally I feel like someone could be a two out

7:36 of 10 and like pop an accent on them easily like a seven.

7:39 Like I want to get like you know those helicopters

7:43 where like if someone's in trouble they're in a helicopter.

7:45 I want to get lifted like that and dropped off in a section of England.

7:49 Speaking of a wonderful English accent, let's call Maline R.J.

7:51 Hello.

7:53 Hi.

7:54 How are you?

7:55 Good.

7:55 How are you?

7:56 I'm filming a video right now.

7:57 Oh.

7:58 Hey guys.

7:59 Would you like to say hello?

8:00 Yes.

8:01 Hello everybody.

8:02 I was talking about how like I love Patty the Baddy's accent and like how I

8:05 like need to get helicoptered into a certain

8:08 part of England and like just dropped off.

8:12 Who?

8:11 Patty the baddy.

8:12 Patty Pimblet.

8:14 Patty Bimblelett.

8:15 Yeah.

8:15 Patty Pimpblelet.

8:16 I I've sent you a Tik Tok of him.

8:18 The fighter guy with the with the scout accent.

8:21 Oh yes.

8:22 Wait.

8:23 You want to be helicoptered into him?

8:25 No, no, no, no.

8:25 He's happily married.

8:27 Oh, you want to go?

8:28 You want to go to Liverpool?

8:30 [laughter] You want to go to Liverpool?

8:32 Transplacing right now.

8:33 You would like to visit Liverpool.

8:36 Yeah, let's go to Liverpool, [laughter] do you think?

8:39 No, I've I've been to Liverpool once and I only went to the Spoons.

8:42 I don't know what the spoons are.

8:43 Spoons?

8:44 I told you about spoons.

8:44 Where the spoons, my friend?

8:46 Did you tell me about spoons?

8:49 Probably.

8:49 Okay.

8:49 Well, what do you think?

8:50 What do you think that for me?

8:51 Like, do you like that for me?

8:52 Like, is that what I I need?

8:54 Yes, I think that's exactly what you need.

8:57 Okay.

8:57 [laughter] Because I think, can you imagine graduating?

9:02 Well, actually, it's kind of the same thing,

9:04 but different font from like Silver Lake man, right, to Liverpool man.

9:11 Need that.

9:12 Need that.

9:13 Need that.

9:14 Yeah.

9:14 Oh, I want to see a Liverpool man in Silver Lake.

9:18 Dream, dream, dream, dream, dream, dream, dream.

9:20 Okay.

9:21 Could you imagine?

9:21 I You know what?

9:22 I can and I'm going to imagine it later tonight.

9:24 I might do it right now.

9:25 I've got nothing else on.

9:26 [laughter] I love you so much.

9:29 Enjoy your time.

9:31 Okay, so she agrees with me.

9:32 That's nice.

9:32 That's good to know.

9:33 Speaking of aura, I have an Aura right now.

9:35 I talked about it a little bit in my last video.

9:37 My managers bought bought it for me for Christmas

9:40 and I've been counting my steps every day.

9:42 Not only that, but it tells you how you slept.

9:44 That's more important to me because when I tell you I got 2 hours of sleep,

9:47 not last night, but the night prior.

9:48 I slept at Meline's house cuz we had a night on the town.

9:51 Guys, this week has been so crazy.

9:53 I feel like in my last video I was like, I'm so hung over.

9:55 No,[ __] I didn't know hung over until I woke up at Meline's house.

9:59 I was literally puking in her guest bathroom and like it was gross.

10:02 It was disgusting.

10:03 And she had a glam squad at her house at 8:00 in the[ __]

10:07 morning cuz she had a photo shoot cuz she's girl boss[ __] slay.

10:10 And I'm[ __] hung over like shaking.

10:12 And I'm like, "Holy[ __] I need to go home." What was I saying?

10:15 My aura ring.

10:16 Yeah, I don't know if it's helping much.

10:18 It is helping cuz I know that I [music] slept poorly,

10:21 but like I could have told you that.

10:22 You know what I mean?

10:22 But it is nice like knowing if I have stress during my day.

10:26 Like it tells you in my stress spikes.

10:28 It's good to know, you know, if I show you guys my week.

10:30 I'm going to show you guys actually.

10:32 The red is stress and the blue is relaxed.

10:35 Need to show you guys.

10:36 You guys are going to laugh.

10:37 This is my recent days.

10:38 The red is stress and the blue is me being relaxed.

10:41 I mean, it doesn't take a freaking scientist

10:43 to tell you that I'm stressed all the time.

10:45 Yeah.

10:45 So, that's been that's been how I've been feeling.

10:47 I guess kind of stressed.

10:49 At least I'm getting my steps in.

10:50 I have a walking pad now, guys.

10:52 Invest in a walking pad.

10:53 It's the best decision I've ever made because I

10:55 get like miles of steps in without leaving my house.

10:57 And like if I'm doom scrolling on TikTok,

10:59 I'll just be walking on my walking pad.

11:00 And it's so good for you.

11:01 Like it's not like I'm like running.

11:02 Just walking is so good for you.

11:04 It helps metabolize it.

11:06 Oh my god, that dog is perfect.

11:09 Oh [clears throat] my god.

11:10 So cute.

11:10 That's how you get my attention.

11:12 A man with aura with a dog in their hands.

11:13 That's what I just That's what I just witnessed right there.

11:15 I was thinking about this while I was driving to my coffee this morning.

11:19 And it was the fact that there were so many days in high

11:21 school and middle school that I thought were the end of the world.

11:24 I was like so sad or felt so targeted and felt so like left

11:30 out by my friends or that I felt like this guy didn't like me back.

11:35 And now a couple years later, haven't thought about it since.

11:39 Like yeah, randomly I thought about it on my drive,

11:41 but I wasn't thinking about those moments.

11:43 I was thinking about how it literally does not affect my life at all.

11:46 Those moments do not matter at all.

11:49 Like if you feel like something is the end of the world, do me a favor.

11:53 Think to yourself in a year, will this matter?

11:54 And if it doesn't, then you need to stop stressing out about it.

11:57 And should I be the one talking with all that stress on my ordering?

12:00 No.

12:01 But it's situational.

12:02 Like I like don't let something that like isn't going

12:05 to affect you in a year from now stress you out.

12:08 If it doesn't have a year's worth of consequence, do not bother.

12:11 Do not bother.

12:12 That's all I was thinking because Meline, we were at the moment,

12:16 the Charlie XX moment movie premiere, and before the movie started,

12:20 she's like, "Do you think we'll remember this when we're 90 years old,

12:22 you know, in her beautiful accent?" And I was like,

12:24 "Maybe." Like, "What if it like tonight like is a really fun

12:26 night and it changes the trajectory of our lives?" And she's like,

12:28 "I don't think it it'll matter." And it's

12:30 like there's two ways to think about it, right?

12:31 Like in that moment, obviously, I was like, "What?

12:33 I hope this matters in 90 years or like when we're 90.

12:35 We're going to be dead in 90 years.

12:37 There's no way I'm going to live to like 110." Oh my god, what if I do?

12:40 Kill me.

12:41 Pull the plug then.

12:41 Anyways, you know, there's two ways to look at it.

12:43 If it's a negative thing,

12:44 obviously you hope that you're not going to remember it in like years time.

12:47 But that night ended up actually being really fun and then

12:49 I woke up super hung over at her house the next morning.

12:51 Um cuz we like went to an afterparty and then after the after

12:54 party we still went out because I was like we need to keep going.

12:57 We need to keep the night going.

12:58 So, do I think that it's going to matter when we're 90?

13:01 No.

13:01 But it might be a fun night that we look back on.

13:03 There's two ways to look at things.

13:04 You know, this could either be depressing or really, really inspirational.

13:06 And I'm not sure which I'm going for in this moment.

13:08 But you take it how you want.

13:09 Take it how you need.

13:10 There is a little kid on a car right now.

13:12 Like on top of a car, like climbing their parents' car.

13:14 I'm not I'm not joking.

13:17 Like Like I'm not kidding.

13:19 She's grabbing the top of her and neither of the parents are looking.

13:24 Oh my god.

13:24 She's on top of the car and the mom is do like there's the mom.

13:28 The dad's on the phone.

13:29 The mom is doing the other little girl's hair and the the kids on top of Oh,

13:33 now they're looking.

13:33 Okay.

13:34 Are they going to grab her?

13:35 No.

13:35 She just climbed down.

13:36 I can't make this up, you guys.

13:37 What a parking lot am I in?

13:38 Like that's crazy.

13:40 That's kind of what's been on my mind lately.

13:41 Trying to think of other things that's been on my mind.

13:43 Bill Nye the Science Guy.

13:44 He's always on my mind.

13:45 Love that man.

13:46 I want to do a stuck in a car with him more than anything.

13:48 He has aura.

13:49 Bill Nye the Science Guy.

13:50 Most aura I've ever seen on a man.

13:52 Would you guys watch 10 minutes of me just doing this?

13:56 Just wondering.

13:58 Guys, I've been partying almost every night in the last 2 weeks,

14:02 and it just gets me so excited that I get to party with you guys super soon.

14:05 Tickets are going to be in the description below.

14:08 I'm coming to a city near you and it's going to be

14:11 a really fun night where a bunch of DJs, including myself,

14:15 play a bunch of really fun dance music for you guys and you guys can drink,

14:19 not drink, dance with your friends, meet the love of your life.

14:22 See, PDA in that place is fine cuz it's nighttime club vibes.

14:26 Go ahead, give a kiss to a friend, give a kiss to a partner.

14:29 I will look away.

14:31 Yeah, I'm really excited to party with you guys and it's going to be super fun.

14:34 expect to I was going to say expect

14:36 to wake up at Maline Argie's house throwing up,

14:38 but I was just trying to compare it to the night I just had.

14:41 Um, you know, expect a fun night that you will probably remember

14:44 in 90 years time because I think it'll be a really fun one.

14:47 I think that's it.

14:48 I think that's all that's on my mind lately.

14:49 I think I've like, you know,

14:50 when you like have an SD card and you put it in and you get all the SD card.

14:54 I mean, maybe because I'm a YouTuber.

14:55 That's my analogy.

14:56 Let's say you're uploading like a bunch of files.

14:58 You're uploading a bunch of files.

14:59 That's what I feel like I'm doing right now.

15:00 I've just like downloaded a bunch of my mind

15:02 files to you guys and now I feel empty again.

15:05 Not much, you know?

15:06 So, I feel good.

15:06 I feel good.

15:07 And I feel like every few weeks I should

15:08 make videos like this where I just like, you know,

15:10 everything that's been on my mind I just kind of like download onto you

15:13 guys and I get to refill my little brain with little things that don't matter.

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