Barbie Pascual Joins The Crew & Fangirls Over Chef Ben | BDDU After Show (S4 E15) Pt 2 | Bravo

0:00 We're still in a professional work environment.

0:01 We have head of departments for a reason.

0:04 And not everybody should be out there just berating other people's subordinates.

0:09 You just grabbed a shrimp bite of my hand during dinner service and now

0:13 you're [music] telling me that it's your job when I was trying to help.

0:16 struggling to put it on the two sides so

0:17 I just grabbed it and put it on the side.

0:19 Well, why are you this intense about it?

0:22 The way Daisy spoke to me was kind of unacceptable.

0:26 First of all, she did it in front of another crew member.

0:29 But to all of it, I haven't always been strong and usually

0:32 someone like Alli would probably have gotten the better of me.

0:34 I have had those situations and had to grow

0:37 from them and definitely people have taken my kindness for weakness,

0:40 but I wish Ben had stuck up for me.

0:43 Ben is not showing good managerial skills.

0:45 At the very least set the boundary with Daisy saying, "Hey,

0:49 if you have an issue with Alli, don't approach her directly.

0:52 Approach me and I'll handle it." That's all I wanted from Ben.

0:54 She told me that Daisy had attacked her in the crew's quarters, right?

0:59 That's a lie.

1:00 Daisy just attacked me.

1:01 What?

1:02 About what?

1:03 Like And I said what physically cuz I

1:05 didn't see anyone with a black eye around there.

1:07 No, it was verbally.

1:10 And then I discovered that yes,

1:11 she wanted me to talk to Daisy on her behalf and it

1:15 was awkward because it was kind of the dutiful thing to do,

1:18 you know, because, you know,

1:19 she's my sous chef so I should fight her battles or at least figure it out,

1:24 you know, and see who's in the right and the wrong.

1:27 She [snorts] set me off by her coming up to me in front of everybody and said,

1:31 "Do we have a problem?" it was kind of out of character for you to go

1:35 and rehash something that I was going to let all of that slide.

1:39 It was definitely something I didn't want to address

1:40 and something I didn't need at the time,

1:43 but I was happy to oblige and in any matter I could.

1:46 definitely not happy with how Ben handled that situation at all.

1:50 He [snorts] wants all of his emotions

1:52 and his feelings to be addressed and taken seriously.

1:57 But whenever it comes to something

1:58 that I'm feeling or something I'm experiencing,

2:00 he just wants it swept under the rug.

2:02 We just got to get along.

2:03 So, just, you know, put it aside and move on.

2:05 At least make it clear that she does not get

2:09 to approach me with her grievances in front of other people.

2:12 He's doing everything he can to make an environment quiet and peaceful.

2:17 It's given her a voice to speak up a little

2:20 bit more when she is just a kitchen hand.

2:22 Ben, he could have stepped in earlier and kept some leadership

2:26 qualities there and management qualities within his galley and stopped this.

2:30 I do understand what Ben is going through.

2:33 I've lost grip of my department before.

2:36 Hannah, you're doing cabins tonight.

2:38 Why am I doing cabins?

2:40 I've done it this morning [music] and then I did them this afternoon.

2:42 She's discussed.

2:43 Shots fired, bro.

2:45 But not at the expense of anybody else.

2:46 She might be thinking she's doing the right thing, too.

2:49 She's just trying to get the the galley functioning in the way it can,

2:53 working with Ben and and and the situation.

2:55 So, she's That's how her way of going forward is.

2:59 We have to pick each other up.

3:00 We have to help each other out.

3:04 I'm nervous.

3:05 I'm confused about the mustache and I thought he was

3:08 the bosun cuz like if you're coming to pick me up,

3:11 like okay, you must be the bosun.

3:13 Okay, not the bosun.

3:15 I'm Eddie, by the way.

3:16 You're Eddie?

3:16 Yeah.

3:16 I'm Barbie.

3:17 It's nice to meet you.

3:18 Wow, have a nice night.

3:19 I watched Barbie before and was like what is going on?

3:24 She is mental.

3:26 I'm a class act and I'm not going to date somebody who's not.

3:30 YOU GUYS WANTED TO DRIVE ME BAT CRAZY?

3:34 YOU WIN AND I'M DONE AND I QUIT.

3:37 BUT WHAT I knew about her, she was hard working.

3:41 I have 7 years.

3:42 I've been a chief stew twice.

3:44 I treat my house myself like a charter guest.

3:46 This is who I am.

3:48 I had some reservations.

3:50 She clearly had some conflict with Fraser

3:52 and that is already a massive red flag.

3:55 It is not a secret that Daisy and Fraser are besties.

3:58 He literally just said, "We didn't get on.

4:01 It was a year ago.

4:02 I don't need any more conflict coming on board." She probably was going

4:07 to come in and be a bit of a lick arse to me.

4:10 You know, she didn't want to make same mistakes she did.

4:12 And that's what I learned about yachting.

4:13 When you have a chief stew, you can't really be yourself.

4:16 She has your back though, to be fair.

4:18 I also had to suck up a lot to her.

4:20 I had to bite my tongue.

4:22 I had to like I came in like a dog with their tail under.

4:25 He was so supportive of her, you know,

4:27 fully encouraged me to keep an open mind, which I did.

4:31 Daisy knows in comes trouble.

4:33 But Daisy also knows in comes the best stew.

4:36 I was like a little to him and I was also as good as him.

4:40 He is the best chief stew.

4:43 Hands down.

4:44 The standards Fraser holds, it's like perfect 24/7.

4:47 Every cabinet, every drawer, every laundry, everything.

4:51 Welcome to Casino babe.

4:52 I'll tell you one thing that had been the biggest

4:54 show on the boat from the start was the laundry.

4:59 We had constantly never had I closed.

5:02 Barbie brought just load of experience.

5:04 Oh my god, it was so bad.

5:06 Can't be clean.

5:07 Probably in here headspace.

5:08 She was like, "This place is just She was just like,

5:12 I just want to get in and get my stuff done.

5:14 She had the energy because everyone else

5:16 had none because we'd gone through a season.

5:19 I love her.

5:20 She's like the new Rocky.

5:21 Like she'd be horrible to work with, but No, she was good at her job.

5:25 Yeah, very good.

5:26 Yeah.

5:26 I just really like her.

5:28 Oh my like I hello, who does not know Chef Ben?

5:31 I'm like low-key fan girling.

5:33 Like I'm like, "Oh my god, Chef Ben.

5:34 I can't wait to eat his food." Like I'm automatically hungry.

5:39 [laughter] I thought she was smart weirdly like straight away, you know.

5:41 That means you think she was cute and hot.

5:43 And she was cute and hot.

5:45 Yeah.

5:46 Every time he thinks a girl is hot, he says,

5:50 "I I think she's smart in a weird way." Because he will never admit like hot,

5:56 cuz that's just too animalistic.

5:59 Maybe I'm attracted to intelligence.

6:00 Give me the benefit of the doubt.

6:02 Oh my god, I was so excited to see Barbie.

6:06 [screaming] I KNOW BARBIE.

6:11 SHE'S BEEN A FRIEND.

6:11 SHE'S been supportive of me.

6:13 So, after dealing with everything I've dealt with this season,

6:18 I really needed a friend.

6:20 So, I was just so relieved to see a familiar face.

6:23 First of all, Elly is a secret spy.

6:25 Me and Elly are like real friends.

6:26 And like you would think a real friend

6:28 tells a real friend that she's on said boat.

6:31 I get on the boat and I see her and I'm like,

6:34 "What?" She didn't even give you the lowdown like So,

6:37 she didn't even give you secret lowdown of like,

6:39 "Okay, actually this is what's happening.

6:41 This is what you're walking into.

6:42 It's a crazy town right now." She didn't say, "I'm here.

6:46 No way, you're my roommate." Nothing.

6:48 She was like, "You're going to get a surprise."

6:51 And when I walked on that, I was not ready.

6:53 And like not only was I not ready, but what is she doing in the kitchen?

6:56 I remember pulling Barbie aside and was like,

6:57 "Um look, I know you're friends with Elly.

6:59 Please, it's been a long season.

7:01 There's a lot going on.

7:02 Please just take everything at face value.

7:04 Go out there and get to know everyone.

7:06 Whatever you hear, take with a grain of salt.

7:08 Have your own judgment." And I feel like she did.

7:10 I got to tell you, if my name was Barbara, I'd be a Barbie.

7:15 Okay, great.