ALLYSON & WES FELIX on Fighting Nike, Motherhood, and Making History Again | IMO
Michelle Obama
0:00 I started to hide my pregnancy, and so I would train while it was dark.
0:06 I wanted to be a mother so badly.
0:08 I wanted all the baby shower, the bump pictures,
0:12 and my experience was just lonely, isolating.
0:16 I barely ever left the house.
0:18 When I did, I was in big baggy clothing,
0:20 and we were doing this because even when
0:23 they offered the 70% less, it wasn't on paper.
0:26 And so there was the basis of them low ball balling you.
0:31 I think it was really, you know, I was older.
0:33 You were getting older and they didn't think you could do it.
0:35 Yeah, right.
0:36 And I think they didn't think that they had to pay me to do it.
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0:51 Craig.
0:53 Michelle.
0:54 What's going on?
0:55 It's Craig, Craig and Michelle.
0:57 Michelle and Craig, how about Michelle and Craig?
0:59 Did we go over that?
1:00 No, I think I think it Michelle and Craig sounds better,
1:05 but we grew up hearing Craig and Michelle.
1:08 That's right.
1:09 I think Michelle and Greg sounds better.
1:13 You like that?
1:14 But I'm excited about our show today because when we
1:20 started talking about doing IMO and over the first season things,
1:26 the show is becoming what it's gonna be, right?
1:30 And it's beautiful.
1:31 I love how we're kind of unwinding what it is organically.
1:36 But We talked about wanting to really get more siblings.
1:40 Siblings, like situations that we can contrast and compare with our upbringing.
1:48 Especially siblings who work together.
1:51 Mm-hmm.
1:51 And we did that with Regina and Raina.
1:54 We've got a couple of people in, but this pair,
1:59 everybody will know who the sister of the team is,
2:04 duo is, I've been a fan of hers for a long time.
2:08 But we've got brother, sister here.
2:10 You wanna do the introduction?
2:12 I do.
2:12 We have Alison and Wes Felix.
2:15 So I am excited because this is my first time meeting them.
2:20 Not my first seeing them, but my first meeting them.
2:23 So, I will start with Alison's bio.
2:27 Alison Felix is the most decorated American track and field Olympian in history,
2:35 earning 31 global medals across the Olympics and world championships.
2:40 31!
2:41 That's a lot of running.
2:42 That's a lot of medals, and a lot of winning, and lot of.
2:47 Uh, placing and competing along with multiple world
2:52 records at her fifth Olympic Games in Tokyo, 2020.
2:58 She wore spikes from her own brand, Seish,
3:02 making her the first track and field athlete to complete,
3:05 to compete in her own footwear.
3:07 So we're going to talk about that.
3:09 And now Wes has a distinguished athletic and leadership background as well.
3:15 At USC, he was an all-American and captain of USC's track team.
3:21 So I can't wait to talk to them about, I mean,
3:24 we were close in college, but it wasn't like you were playing ball or anything.
3:28 Yeah, right.
3:29 That's right.
3:30 And then West founded Evolve Management.
3:33 Agency, shaping the brands of top female athletes,
3:38 including his sister, Allison Felix.
3:40 In 2021, he co-founded Sage, a women's specific performance footwear brand.
3:45 And in 2024, Always Alpha,
3:48 the first talent management firm dedicated entirely to women's sports.
3:55 Amen.
3:56 So.
3:57 So we got so much to talk about.
3:58 We have so much to talk about and we can't wait.
4:01 So why don't you guys come on out?
4:03 Allison Felix, welcome to IMO.
4:10 Oh Thank you.
4:12 Welcome, man.
4:13 Thank you, thank you.
4:14 Thank you.
4:15 Thank you so much.
4:18 See you.
4:20 Have a seat, get all settled in.
4:24 You're right.
4:25 I got it ready.
4:26 You don't have to.
4:28 Well, you guys, welcome, welcome.
4:31 Thank you.
4:32 Thank you so much.
4:33 You're looking great.
4:34 Big brother, little sister.
4:35 I love it.
4:36 Yeah, yeah.
4:38 I feel like her maturity has maybe surpassed mine now that she's a mom.
4:42 Yeah, but he was a dad first, but I still think my maturity surpasses him.
4:49 Well, I think that's a gender thing.
4:52 I think it's a gender thing,
4:55 and Misha's maturity level surpassed me when she was six.
5:01 So at least she held out for a little bit.
5:06 She was bossing me around at six years old.
5:09 So, so growing up, how did you, when did the competition start?
5:14 Like, did you guys play,
5:16 like we played everything together because she was my first playmate.
5:22 So whether it was sports or games, board games,
5:26 cards, when that that started for you and me early.
5:30 The minute you could get me to do stuff and the minute
5:32 I was old enough for him to beat me at something,
5:35 he would be like, let's play this game that I've been practicing for two years.
5:39 I like your style, I'm right there with you.
5:42 Yeah, it was the same for us.
5:45 Really early on, I feel like our family is just competitive.
5:49 So that was, you know, that was the dynamic always.
5:52 And then I was just the tag along.
5:54 You know, whatever Wes was doing, I was trying to keep up.
5:57 And so if he was playing with the boys
5:59 in the neighborhood and they were playing basketball, I wasn't too far along.
6:03 But he never let me win in anything.
6:07 And I also didn't...
6:09 I was always Wes's little sister, like I didn't have a name.
6:12 So he was doing well.
6:13 And when I came along, you know, that kind of was the thing.
6:16 And so I felt like I was trying to kind of keep up with you.
6:21 Yeah.
6:21 It was interesting as you guys were doing the open and you were saying,
6:25 is it Michelle and Craig or is it Craig and Michelle?
6:29 And it's interesting for us just when it switched.
6:32 Yeah.
6:32 You know, it was always Wes and Allison
6:34 and it was this is Allison or Wes's little sister.
6:39 Wes's Little Sister, yeah.
6:39 And then all of a sudden, high school, it like turned.
6:44 Like Alison and Wes and it was that's
6:47 Alison's brother and it's been that way ever since.
6:53 We had the same, ours was a little later when she,
6:56 when she became iconic as the first lady.
7:00 And it's like I became, I became Michelle Obama's brother.
7:06 And I was more than happy to be that, you know,
7:11 because she had been Craig Robinson's little sister for so long.
7:14 And it was, it was irritating at times,
7:18 but you got to meet some Well, I probably like you, Allison.
7:23 I adored my big brother.
7:25 I mean, there was never a feeling of competition.
7:29 We'd compete, but you know, if he got something new,
7:32 I was excited for him, you know.
7:35 So tell us about your parents because we miss our so much.
7:42 Tell us how they influenced the people you became.
7:45 Yeah, so our dad is a pastor.
7:48 So, yeah, we grew up as PKs, and our mom was a pastor too.
7:52 Oh, is that a thing?
7:53 PK?
7:56 That's because you don't go to church.
8:00 That is the truth, I wouldn't- Yeah.
8:05 And our mom was elementary school teacher.
8:07 She taught third grade.
8:09 And so, yeah, they were very much people of service and invested in people.
8:16 And we always grew up hearing, your parents are so amazing.
8:19 They've done so much for us.
8:21 And for us, I think they're really great examples of what hard work
8:24 looked like and what passion looked like
8:27 and really gave us a beautiful upbringing.
8:31 Yeah, I think I, I always think of, you know,
8:35 the, especially our dad, his, his dad passed away when he was eight.
8:39 So he had such a different life than we did, but he,
8:44 where he grew up, it was two streets over from where we grew up.
8:48 So literally exact same neighborhood, you know, just two streets over.
8:52 That's similar to us.
8:55 Yeah, we grew up in the community that our parents grew up.
8:58 Yeah, same thing.
8:59 And then his dad passed when he was eight.
9:01 So then they had to leave that neighborhood and they had to go out,
9:05 just kind of into LA.
9:07 And, um, and so to get to experience what
9:09 it was like to have both parents there and alive.
9:14 And, you know, I think we got to experience things
9:17 that, that for him were his like hopes for us,
9:21 but also he was so protective because I think he knew how fragile.
9:26 All of it was.
9:27 And for us growing up in LA in the 80s,
9:30 90s, like it was, it was like a war zone.
9:34 There And, you know, we lived in this beautiful little pocket.
9:38 Mm-hmm.
9:38 This gated little pocket, but it was still right in the middle of all of it.
9:43 Well, that's all black neighborhoods.
9:44 If you grow up in a, I don't care what socioeconomic,
9:47 at least when we were coming up, black folks all live together.
9:52 So there might be a block or two or four,
9:56 but you were surrounded by all of the black community,
10:00 which I thought was a beautiful way for us to grow up,
10:03 you know, because you were never too far.
10:06 You never could get too big for yourself.
10:08 You couldn't.
10:09 And I know growing up in our neighborhood,
10:11 being kids that studied and spoke proper English,
10:14 you know, you were living two lives.
10:17 You know, you had to get to school,
10:19 you know clear and know how to act with your neighborhood friends, right?
10:23 And then come back home and straighten up and use the right English.
10:28 It was almost like, you it was a complete code switching.
10:31 But I treasured that experience.
10:34 I'm so glad we grew up.
10:36 With that, both of you, and we'll talk about sports,
10:41 but what's very clear in your career,
10:45 Allison, is that you have a very high bar for yourself, period.
10:52 And you put so much pressure on yourself.
10:56 I wanna know, and Wes, you're probably the same way,
10:59 but I'm just wondering where does that come from?
11:03 Because...
11:03 Your parents, you know, they're like, you succeeded when you graduated, right?
11:09 Good people.
11:11 Not in a gang.
11:12 You know, the bar becomes, I wouldn't say low, but I know our parents,
11:16 they didn't put pressure on us to be
11:19 anything other than good people in the world.
11:22 You know?
11:22 There wasn't like, You're going to be an Olympic athlete.
11:25 You're gonna be president.
11:26 You know, it was just like, so where does that...
11:30 Pressure for you guys come from?
11:32 Yeah, it definitely, yeah, didn't come from our parents.
11:35 And it's really interesting because they had no athletic dreams for us.
11:40 So for me, it really, it just felt like who I was.
11:45 It felt very natural to have these high expectations.
11:50 But I think I did see my parents work so hard at what they were doing.
11:55 And so when I did find something that I was passionate about,
11:58 I wanted to bring that same energy to it.
12:01 And so I think that's what it was.
12:04 I wanted it to do it the best that I could.
12:06 And that always looked like setting a goal.
12:09 And then if I achieved it, then okay,
12:11 there's another one and there's another one, and it just kind of kept going.
12:15 But it was really kind of internal for me that I kept pushing.
12:21 You started with, or you play basketball, where did the running come in?
12:27 Because what I found with most basketball players, running is a punishment.
12:33 So you don't like to do it and then you have, you,
12:37 so you went from basketball to running
12:40 and, and I know you followed him with the running.
12:43 But where did they running come?
12:45 For me, it was really just around school and like making friends.
12:49 But Wes was at a different school.
12:51 And so he was already running and he was all ready doing well.
12:54 And so it was kind of a natural next step for me to try.
12:58 I was playing basketball, but still hadn't made the friends that I needed.
13:03 I didn't find my group.
13:04 And then that's really for me how...
13:07 And that was the same, our dad was, we were out in new school and he was like,
13:11 sports are a great way to meet people.
13:13 Just trying to, trying to meet, people just trying to make friends.
13:15 Stumbled into it.
13:17 Yeah.
13:17 And then I think.
13:18 You know, and it, you know, that's, yeah.
13:22 Yeah, it did out, it, it...
13:24 It did out.
13:25 Then we fell in love with it.
13:26 Yeah.
13:27 And I think it was a huge part of our bond too,
13:30 was like, it was like the family business.
13:33 So what was it like, Alison, going to the Olympics at 18?
13:39 Mmm.
13:40 Do you remember that?
13:41 Is that still?
13:43 Yeah, I mean, yes, very fresh.
13:46 It was, everything was new for me because I had only really seriously
13:50 joined the track team at my high school a little over four years before.
13:55 And so everything happened so quickly.
13:57 And so for me, it was like the, you know,
14:00 the biggest competition that I've raced in.
14:03 It was away from home.
14:04 It was all the things.
14:06 I didn't grow up wanting to be an Olympian.
14:09 So.
14:09 It was something, you know, that I found much later.
14:12 So I was really everything that they had to offer.
14:15 I was doing walking and opening ceremonies,
14:17 trading pins, living in the Olympic Village.
14:19 It was just so exciting.
14:21 But when it came to the competition,
14:22 I was still very much so that competitive, you know athlete.
14:27 And so I ended up getting a silver medal.
14:29 Oh, we saw the documentary.
14:33 But I was Not happy.
14:36 But just in terms of context because you know everybody should
14:41 know you but we are we want to make sure that every
14:46 listener understands because You you you were the one of the youngest
14:53 Olympians to run in your meet to make that jump that quickly.
14:59 Yeah And I want to hear a bit about that that experience because
15:07 people didn't think they thought you were going after the Olympics too soon.
15:12 Yeah.
15:12 You were a phenom too.
15:14 So there was all this attention.
15:17 Yeah.
15:17 Can you talk a bit about that, the journey to the Olympics?
15:21 Yeah.
15:22 Sorry.
15:23 Metta feels like failure.
15:25 Yeah, it did.
15:26 I was, I had done really well in high school.
15:29 And so...
15:30 Do it justice, do it justice.
15:33 Wes, just jump in because she's not going to do it.
15:35 I'm just going to set the stage.
15:36 That's why Big Brother's here.
15:39 So, Allison was state champion in California, which is a huge track state.
15:47 Right.
15:48 When was your first state championship?
15:50 Sophomore year?
15:50 My sophomore year, yeah.
15:51 So sophomore year was her first state Championship,
15:54 which just doesn't, that's insanely rare in California.
16:00 And then she's on the cover of Sports Illustrated
16:03 by the time she's 17 as a track athlete, which again, that doesn't just happen.
16:11 When it was her senior year, she went to Mexico City.
16:15 She went to a private school and she had a coach.
16:18 Who was like so dedicated.
16:20 I think like it's such an amazing part of your story.
16:23 Just the way that your coach like believed
16:25 in you and wanted you to have all the opportunities.
16:27 But he said, hey, there's this pro meet you can go compete in.
16:33 We should go down there.
16:33 It's in Mexico City.
16:35 They asked you to come, they're gonna pay, you know.
16:38 And so our parents go down there and she runs in this meet against.
16:42 Women who this is their job.
16:44 This is how they put food on the table.
16:47 This isn't fun anymore.
16:48 This is their jobs.
16:50 And she goes down there.
16:51 They're not going back, going to the prom.
16:52 No, no.
16:54 She goes down there and she runs and she beats an entire field of professionals.
16:59 Not takes third and beats most of the pros.
17:02 She beats all of the pro's.
17:04 And she runs the fastest time in the world for any
17:08 woman that year and then decided that she wanted to go pro.
17:14 And so she became the first high school athlete to go directly pro.
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21:17 What made you decide to go pro?
21:20 What...
21:22 It was a really big decision because,
21:24 yeah, that wasn't happening in track and field.
21:27 And the biggest factor was that the Olympic Games were going
21:30 to be the next year and Wes was already at USC.
21:32 And so I had this front row seat watching
21:35 him compete and seeing what it actually looked like.
21:39 And he had, you know, it was all about the NCAAs.
21:42 And so he was all the point system and so he would have a lot of events.
21:47 And, you know, if you wanted to do well at the Olympics, that was fine.
21:51 But that was not going to be the primary goal.
21:54 And so in really getting to talk to him and his experience, it was like,
21:58 if I really wanted to take it seriously to try to make the Olympic team,
22:02 my best bet was going to able to just
22:05 solely focus on that and not run for the team.
22:08 And I know, you know,
22:08 I would have wanted to be a team player and have done all the things.
22:11 And so that was really what it came down to was, could I...
22:16 Focus solely on trying to make the Olympic team.
22:19 And it was a decision that was really criticized a lot.
22:24 And of course we didn't have social media like we have now.
22:30 But, you know, I heard it and it was,
22:32 it was really hard, but I, my family, you know, they supported me.
22:38 And, and yeah, I think I made the right decision for what my goals were.
22:43 I still had feelings of missing out
22:46 on the true college experience and, you know,
22:48 being on the team and all of those things.
22:51 But I, yeah, I, I went for, you know, I went for trying to make the team.
22:57 Do you, n- Remember the first time you said to yourself,
23:00 I want to be an Olympian.
23:02 It was really late.
23:04 It was probably around the time, a little bit before that race in Mexico City.
23:10 Because for me, I had always looked at it as like,
23:12 this is going to be college, you know?
23:14 This is my ticket to college and to get it paid for.
23:18 And so I always had that mindset.
23:19 And also because we found it late,
23:22 I don't think I really knew it was like a career path.
23:26 It's like you didn't run, you ran in a neighborhood.
23:29 Yeah, you compete in school.
23:31 And it's just so different than like the NBA
23:33 or the NFL where you're hearing these contracts and all this stuff.
23:38 I didn't know it.
23:39 We knew no one who was...
23:40 I didn't know, we knew no one who was a professional track athlete.
23:42 And so I think it was just, you know, even the possibility.
23:45 And then, you, know,
23:47 once I had done really well and I started to like look and see,
23:52 oh, you there are these people who, you who do this for a living.
23:56 It's like, oh, wow, that sounds amazing.
23:59 So not too long after that race, it was like, OK, I this is what I want to do.
24:03 Win.
24:04 I really wanna take it all the way.
24:06 Well, speaking of kids just doing stuff, so you start.
24:08 Managing, Allison.
24:11 I just, how, you know, because you, how were you when you started managing?
24:19 I was young, I think I was like 24, maybe 25.
24:23 Soon.
24:24 How did the, what was the conversation?
24:27 It's so funny because I was kind of at this place
24:30 in my career where I was looking for new management.
24:33 I was going to a new sponsor and so there was a lot of change happening.
24:37 And I never felt like I had really been,
24:41 got the sponsors and the deals that I should have.
24:44 And so I was really on the hunt for that.
24:47 And Wes was also in this moment in his career at a, transition as well.
24:53 He had a liver virus where it was clear
24:56 that he was not going to be able to continue.
24:59 And so I think everything was...
25:01 Repeat it.
25:01 Not in life.
25:02 Yes, yes, okay.
25:02 I would live.
25:03 Bye!
25:04 Continue on in the sports.
25:07 They're putting death on me, you know.
25:10 But it was kind of this moment that it just aligned,
25:13 and you actually like made a proposal.
25:16 I think he like put a proposal together to our parents,
25:19 like around representing me.
25:21 And I called her Miss Felix in the proposal.
25:25 College then?
25:28 I was a couple of years out of college, I had just been running for a few years.
25:32 I was sponsored by Nike and had the injury
25:35 and then she got her Miss Felix letter.
25:38 So I guess the proposal was really great because,
25:42 but it was like this kind of natural next step and I had all the confidence.
25:48 For me it was great because I felt like for the first time in my entire career,
25:52 I could solely focus on the competition and the training and just say like,
25:57 okay, you've got this other side.
25:59 You know, I looked at her business and at the time she had
26:03 like this sponsorship with Adidas and that was where like her income came from.
26:07 Name from.
26:07 But she had these outside sponsors, and there were two of them,
26:11 and one was Visa and one was Powerbar,
26:14 and together it was a combined $35,000 a year.
26:18 Mm-hmm.
26:18 And so I looked at that and was like, that sounds crazy to me.
26:22 Bye.
26:23 My sister just won an Olympic silver medal.
26:26 She's 18 years old.
26:27 Like she's like the youngest Olympian on the team.
26:30 She's the youngest sprint world champion in history.
26:33 $35,000 doesn't, I didn't know what a lot was, but I knew 35,000 wasn't a lot.
26:38 What do you think it was that, why do you think you were underpaid at that time?
26:44 Because it is true.
26:45 You were a phenom, but you were making $35,000 a year.
26:49 I think probably a combination of things, but I was at a large agency.
26:54 And I think I, well, I felt like I was lost in the cracks.
26:59 Mm-hmm.
26:59 I didn't.
26:59 I didn't feel like anybody was really fighting for me.
27:02 I think in, especially being a female, a black woman,
27:06 someone has to be out there really going hard for you.
27:10 And I don't think I was showing up in rooms.
27:13 I don't think I really was a factor in so much.
27:18 I don't think anyone was really pushing for me and so I
27:20 think that all shifted when the person representing me also cared about me,
27:25 you know, and cared about my wellbeing and Yeah,
27:30 that really shifted when we started working together.
27:34 And it's hard because, you know, everything is about the Olympic Games for us.
27:38 That is our championship.
27:40 That's the biggest thing.
27:41 But it happens every four years.
27:43 And the world only pays attention for those two weeks.
27:47 And so all of your earning potential is really right there.
27:51 But it's also the most, you now, it's the event you have to be ready for.
27:54 And so there's...
27:56 So much that goes into the training, the day in and day out.
28:00 And we do have a professional circuit that we participate every year,
28:06 but it's nothing like the Olympic games.
28:09 And so just the weight of that and the opportunity is small.
28:15 The window is small of your earning potential.
28:18 And so, a lot goes into it and...
28:23 I always say it's, you know, for me, my race was the 221 seconds.
28:27 And if you mess it up, you've got to wait another four years.
28:30 And so it's not only the athletic pursuit of it,
28:33 but the business side of it as well.
28:35 It's like, how do we maximize this time that you don't
28:38 know if you're going to go once or you'll have multiple opportunities.
28:42 So I think it's really difficult for Olympians.
28:46 And then when you start to even get smaller for, you know, for.
28:50 Olympians of color for women, you know, the opportunities are smaller.
28:55 So it's been challenging through the years to really be able to get out there.
29:01 And I always feel like for female athletes as well,
29:03 is not only do you have to be extraordinary in what you do,
29:08 but there's also this other thing where it feels
29:11 like there's like the standard of beauty or there's,
29:14 you have to also be appealing in this certain way.
29:18 And it I think after a while, it just becomes exhausting.
29:21 It's like you're constantly fighting to make it.
29:25 And sometimes you feel like you are not yourself
29:29 when you're trying to fit this version of like, what are they looking for?
29:33 How can I be that when it's not really who I am?
29:36 And so I think it's really been a struggle,
29:39 but I think definitely it was a turning point when we started working together,
29:43 I felt like I could lean into more of myself.
29:47 And be able to honor that.
29:50 I also want to just pitch She Runs the World,
29:54 which is an amazing documentary that, and I
29:57 want to talk more about that, that really
30:00 gives the audience a clear sense of who you both are and, you know,
30:07 character-wise as an athlete.
30:09 Um.
30:10 Uh, so I want people to, cause that's it, it's, I know it's done.
30:15 I've seen it and it's played
30:17 at the Martha's Vineyard African-American Film Festival.
30:21 But I hope more people are going to get to see it,
30:25 but be on the lookout for she runs
30:27 the world and we'll talk more about that story.
30:30 But you guys did something different to keep the light shining.
30:36 Um, because we, we know Alison Felix, um,
30:40 you know, we, we know you inside and out.
30:42 Um, so what did you all, what do you think the difference was for you,
30:47 um in sort of maintaining kind of a high level
30:52 of presence and building an economic model that could sustain you.
30:58 I think it really was eventually doing things outside of the traditional sense.
31:04 I think a lot of stuff shifted for us when we started speaking out,
31:09 once we created our company and I was sponsored by Seishu, our own company.
31:17 It was like breaking outside of mold of the way that things
31:20 had always been done and understanding that that's okay and that's good.
31:25 And I think it was also just.
31:28 Being ourselves, instead of trying to fit into this mold
31:31 of what you think that they're looking for.
31:34 Can we talk about what we're talking to?
31:36 Because you're killing it, winning medals, got big Nike sponsorship.
31:41 You are the female athlete at Nike and they are
31:45 making money off of you and you are killing it.
31:49 And then this wonderful thing happens that turns
31:54 out to not be a wonderful thing in sports.
31:58 Can you talk a bit about it?
31:59 Yeah, I started a family and I had, I was really scared to do that.
32:03 You had the nerve.
32:04 I know.
32:05 Well, I waited first because I felt like I couldn't.
32:07 I had seen, you know, my friends and I'd seen my teammates struggle.
32:12 And so I felt, like, okay, well, if I do enough,
32:15 if I have enough medals, then that won't be me.
32:19 And I waited, I had gone to four games, I had six gold medals,
32:22 and I felt I'm in the safe zone and I start my family.
32:26 And even before I.
32:29 Disclose my pregnancy to them.
32:31 Our negotiations began at an offer of 70% less than what I was making before.
32:39 And that just like, that just shook me because it was like, wow,
32:43 they don't even know and already this is in such a bad place.
32:47 And so my fear amplified and I started to train,
32:51 I started the hide my pregnancy.
32:53 And so I would train while it was dark.
32:56 I Like I wanted to be a mother so badly.
33:00 I wanted all the, you know, the baby shower, the bump pictures.
33:04 And my experience was just lonely, isolating.
33:08 I barely ever left the house.
33:09 When I did, I was in big baggy clothing and we were doing
33:13 this because even when they offered the 70% less, it wasn't on paper.
33:18 And so there was- And what was the basis of them low balling you did?
33:23 I think it was really, you now, Iwas older.
33:25 You were getting older and they didn't think you could do it.
33:28 Yeah, and I think they didn't they had to pay me to do it,
33:32 you know, who else was going to pay me?
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37:36 I found in representing Alison that people are afraid because I'm her brother.
37:42 Mm-hmm.
37:42 They dance around things and I'll try to just tell them I was like,
37:46 you know, I understand that's my sister.
37:48 And also, I'm not here as her brother, I mean here as our manager.
37:52 And so like, I need to understand what
37:54 you're talking to say what you need to say,
37:56 you know, and, and something that that they said was it's just business.
38:02 And also, you know, she is getting older.
38:06 And how old were you at the time?
38:08 Was I like 32?
38:10 Yeah.
38:10 32.
38:11 Yeah.
38:12 She's getting older and, you know, and as conversations went on and it got a bit
38:19 more heated and truth came out a little bit more.
38:23 Something else they said that I found like unbelievably just offensive was,
38:28 well, we've paid her a lot of money over the years.
38:32 And when I remember...
38:33 She's had enough.
38:33 When the comment came out,
38:35 you're kind of looking at a white man telling you His exact words were,
38:43 well, she's made a lot of money with us.
38:44 I hope she's saved some.
38:47 And my comment was, and you've made much more
38:50 money off of her than she's made off of you.
38:55 And as we went through the negotiations, what became really,
39:01 really clear to me was that this was just because they believed they could.
39:07 It was because they could and, you know,
39:09 there's the parts of that that are, that are ugly and horrible.
39:12 There's a parts of, that that, are just
39:14 business and you don't have to be amazing, great people to do business.
39:20 It would obviously be better if you were,
39:21 but you don't have to, be and, and I think what they,
39:26 what they never thought could happen is what, what did happen.
39:32 Um which is.
39:33 They never thought that we would actually stand up
39:35 to them and that Alison would sit down and.
39:40 Yeah, I wrote a New York Times op-ed sharing what was going on.
39:43 We had turned our attention away from the financial
39:47 part of it and asked for maternal protections,
39:49 which simply meant the contracts are performance based.
39:53 And so they're created so that if you go
39:55 to the Olympics or world championships, you get a bonus.
39:58 And if you don't, you got a reduction.
40:00 But if you have a baby or if you've just given birth,
40:03 there was nothing to protect you.
40:05 So I was simply asking for time to be able to recover after childbirth.
40:10 And not be further financially penalized.
40:13 And at first, they said yes.
40:16 And I was like, okay, then we can move forward.
40:19 And when the contract came back,
40:21 there was no mention of maternity, no pregnancy.
40:24 And what we learned was that they were
40:25 not willing to set that precedent for everyone.
40:28 They were willing to give it to me, but not for everyone,
40:32 and so for me, that was just, this happened over a course of time.
40:35 I ended up giving birth to my daughter and.
40:38 There was just, it just, to me, it felt unacceptable.
40:42 It just felt like I couldn't stand by on that.
40:46 So wrote that New York Times op-ed,
40:49 shared what so many women before me had also,
40:51 who were under NDAs, had gone through.
40:55 And yeah, shared my truth.
40:57 And I think it was about two and a half weeks after that op-Ed came out.
41:01 That Nike changed their policy along with many
41:05 other companies today offering 18 months of maternal protection.
41:10 And yeah, but terrifying, you know.
41:13 I bet.
41:14 Terrifying.
41:14 Really, really scary.
41:16 I'm thinking back to something you said earlier
41:19 about your parents being of service to everyone.
41:23 That was your opportunity to be of service.
41:26 Because you could have taken your money.
41:28 You could have just said, okay,
41:30 I'm hooked up like a lot of people do and so kudos to you.
41:35 At any point in time during that whole process,
41:40 did your passion for the sport change?
41:43 Like, did you feel like, oh, I'll show I'm not I'm I'm, I'm through with this.
41:47 I feel like I felt like I had a lot to prove after that.
41:51 It was almost like in going through that, I knew I wasn't done.
41:56 And I hated that I felt like they thought I was through,
42:01 that now I was a mother, I needed to be on to something else.
42:06 I hated it that I was being forced.
42:09 In this narrative that I did not connect with.
42:12 I knew that I still could make it back to the Olympics.
42:15 I knew that I could still be the present mother that I wanted to be.
42:19 And so the idea that I felt like I couldn't make my own decision,
42:24 that motivated me to say like, well,
42:27 I want to show the world that this is a possibility.
42:31 And also I want to show my daughter that when it's her time to do whatever,
42:36 that you can absolutely do the things that the convictions
42:40 of your heart and that you can do it fully, you know, in all the ways.
42:46 And so that was the big shift that I felt.
42:48 Instead of walking away from the sport, you walked away from Nike.
42:53 I walked away from Nike and knew that I wasn't done and Wes and I,
42:58 you know, always figuring it out, figuring out what was next.
43:03 We thought, you now, okay,
43:04 we've got to find a new sponsor and that was the task.
43:08 But as we did a really deep dive in the industry, and Wes,
43:12 I think really going into big brother mode, he was like,
43:15 I just think that we should do this ourselves.
43:17 And I'm like, well, what exactly does that mean?
43:19 You know I had just had a baby, all these things are happening in the world.
43:25 And he said, I think that we should build a shoe company.
43:29 And that just felt also so big, just coming from where we come from.
43:33 I didn't see the path to that, but the more that I sat with it,
43:37 I understood what he was saying.
43:39 It was like, instead of begging these big brands to do the right thing,
43:44 to build the thing differently, we could do it.
43:47 And even though it was very ambitious.
43:51 We did that and we learned that, you know, shoes were not being made for women.
43:57 And that took time to figure out what that meant because, you know,
44:00 we've all been to the shoe store
44:01 and the women's side and I'm like, no, there's shoes.
44:04 But as we unpacked it, we learned, you now,
44:06 a shoe is just made off of a last, which is a mold of a foot.
44:10 And it's the mold of man's foot used to make women's sneakers.
44:14 And I had no idea of being a runner that I was running
44:18 literally in men's shoes and when we figured that out, it was like, wow.
44:22 You know, we have this opportunity, you we can,
44:25 We're at- absolutely where we're supposed to be and we can do
44:28 things differently and we can also see and celebrate women in a holistic
44:31 way that we didn't feel like was being done and I think
44:35 you know when you've really given your life to something for so long
44:38 and to feel so discarded it was very painful and so it
44:44 was picking up the pieces and to me you know to be able
44:47 to make it back to the Olympics to to do it you know
44:51 wearing our our shoes was incredible and also in front of my daughter,
44:56 you know, and really getting to, you now,
44:58 one day fully be able to tell her what all of that means.
45:03 I think it was really a full circle experience.
45:06 Also it was COVID year.
45:07 Yeah, it was a COVID year, yeah.
45:09 So you also, it was so different too, like first games we were not.
45:13 Yeah.
45:13 Well, you skipped over the part that your pregnancy was not uneventful,
45:20 which is the other powerful thing to watch in She Runs the World is just
45:28 your physical stamina and your comeback because
45:32 you had pre-eclampsia and you had a C-section.
45:37 Yeah, you gave birth.
45:39 Early, so Cammie was premature and those days
45:43 watching you and your husband go back and forth
45:46 to that NICU and that New Year's Eve when you could bring her home, I just, ugh.
45:53 Yeah, it was heartbreaking, you know, and I think even more so,
45:57 like, I didn't realize that that was not an uncommon experience,
46:03 that so many black women have gone through that and so many don't
46:07 get to have that experience of walking out of the hospital with their family.
46:10 And so that shifted my life.
46:14 You know, I just felt like we have to be doing more.
46:18 There's no way that we can continue down this path, you know,
46:22 for it to be more dangerous for me to give birth than it was for my mother.
46:26 I mean, that just doesn't make sense.
46:28 And something like 80% of deaths
46:31 and complications of women of color are preventable.
46:33 And so that whole experience,
46:36 you know I think it gave me just that push that I needed to be
46:40 able to speak out and to be to do things I never would have imagined,
46:44 because that's so far from what makes me feel comfortable, but it was,
46:49 it's necessary because, you know,
46:51 Black women are dying giving birth today in our country.
46:55 It's.
46:55 Well, you were living out the full experience of the devaluation
47:00 of women and black women through this sport and through in the world.
47:06 I mean, Wes, like you said, women are, a lot of women we feel beaten down
47:12 because there's so little investment in a woman's life,
47:17 and to see it in this contract
47:19 negotiation where they essentially say, you're done.
47:22 You know, we're through with you, you know,
47:25 there are a lot of male athletes that get legacy deals where they're,
47:30 you know, they're they are done,
47:32 but you know the men around the table still see the value that they bring,
47:38 which is how that's the other reason how they're making more money.
47:43 You know, so the shoe situation is like, it's like our health.
47:47 You know?
47:48 We're not even told about the dangers of giving birth.
47:51 You know studies aren't being done, you know, outrage isn't happening.
47:57 We're just, we're doing the most important
47:59 thing which is bringing life into the world
48:03 and nobody tells us about preeclampsia or morning
48:07 sickness or what it does to our bodies.
48:10 And now companies want to penalize female athletes
48:15 in a pro-life world where we care so much about life,
48:21 you know, but we don't care about the mother who's giving birth.
48:26 That's the full power of your story because there's so many,
48:33 you've lived out the complete disparity in health.
48:39 Yeah.
48:40 Among women, black women, the economic disparities that we face
48:47 as being a world-class athlete, an American hero.
48:53 Thank you.
48:54 It means so much.
48:55 Well, you know, we, we have a listener question,
48:57 but before we get to the listener question I understand that you,
49:02 you may have some news for us.
49:05 I don't know if it's news, but I think one thing,
49:11 there's a thought that keeps coming back
49:14 to me and I've been thinking about honoring it.
49:18 And it's just really the idea, a lot of what we've been talking about as far
49:22 as women and I think when we get to a certain age,
49:27 that sometimes we are told that our life should look a certain way.
49:31 And so I've had this feeling of, do I want to come to LA?
49:34 Do I want to try?
49:35 One more time to make an Olympic team and I keep having the scary feeling
49:41 of it feels like something I want to do and the push to honor that.
49:50 And not because I feel like I need to or that it's something around performance,
49:56 but the feeling that I have is really
49:59 around the narrative for women and, you know,
50:03 this idea of can we have ambition after achievement?
50:06 Mm.
50:06 Can we, what if there is more?
50:09 And I think I'm deeply curious if I could do it.
50:12 Yeah!
50:12 I think it's really big and it's super, it's a big goal.
50:20 But it excites me and it scares me.
50:22 And I think my first thought was, okay,
50:23 this is something that I really want to hold on to and do in private.
50:29 But I think that that also makes me feel like it's probably the right thing.
50:35 It's a little scary.
50:36 It's scary.
50:36 I mean, I think maybe it's something that other women can relate to.
50:39 If there's anybody who should feel like when it comes to her profession,
50:45 her sport, her life, who has nothing to prove, it's you.
50:52 You don't have anything to prove.
50:56 You don't need this.
50:58 But if it's something you want, yeah, yeah.
51:04 Because it's not for them.
51:07 You know, it's for this, it is for Cammie,
51:11 it for all the Cammies that come after,
51:13 all the women who were told no, who stopped when they were told, no.
51:19 All the women who will continue to be told, no, and how old are you now?
51:23 I'm 40.
51:24 You're 40.
51:25 You're a baby.
51:26 I'm 62.
51:27 And you're absolutely right.
51:30 Those bars were false.
51:33 Those boxes that they put us in aren't true.
51:37 They've never been true.
51:39 Um, but because the world is designed for men.
51:43 They create the boxes, they put us in, you know,
51:46 even though there's something in you that says,
51:48 I might be able to do, I have it in me.
51:52 I am not who you say I am.
51:54 I am NOT the box that you put me in.
51:57 We all need a little bit of that.
52:00 Um, I think it would be a powerful statement.
52:03 And that's what hard things are.
52:05 You know, hard things, and I learned this from my husband because I'm probably,
52:11 I'm not as shy as you,
52:13 but I'm inclined to step back from a thing and go, why would you do that?
52:20 It seems like, you know, but I've got this partner who's like, why not?
52:25 You know?
52:26 If not than who, you know?
52:30 So that that's all it is.
52:32 It's just saying yes and then turning your back to what everybody else has
52:37 to say Because the journey is going to require a lot of work and a lot
52:41 Of focus that you already know how to do and I would just narrow
52:44 in on the beauty of that process and let it be whatever it's going to be.
52:49 I just think the process of the effort is powerful, you know,
52:55 and you're going to, you're, you want the goal, you don't want to lose.
53:00 And that's, that's great.
53:01 Now she's getting into my lane.
53:04 She's getting in my lane as the coach at the table.
53:07 Don't say coach.
53:08 I would, I suspect there's a little competition to haul like still left over.
53:15 Thank you.
53:17 And I would just be okay when this is a training start.
53:20 I mean, LeBron is still playing, you know?
53:24 Let's put the team together to make this successful.
53:28 Who's coaching, who's training, who's setting the schedule.
53:34 I mean, I've got goosebumps.
53:37 I'm excited for you.
53:39 Well, I think it's also knowing that I'm OK if this ends with me not making it.
53:46 It's the question of, is it possible?
53:48 Well, I'm not sure, but I'm deeply curious.
53:52 And I think just knowing that you can go for something,
53:56 even at a certain age, that that doesn't have to be a limit.
54:00 It doesn't have to be something that turns you away.
54:03 And not to poo poo all of the warm stuff we're talking about,
54:10 a lot of athletes don't take it to the next
54:13 level because they're afraid that they might not make it.
54:20 I'm trying to teach our high school kids that I'm coaching right now the beauty
54:26 of the journey is in the process
54:29 and the journey itself and that never goes away.
54:33 Yeah, yeah, I think failure or failure, you know, it's a part of it.
54:39 I feel like I've learned so much more from the things that didn't
54:42 go the way that I had thought they were supposed to go.
54:45 And there's so much to be learned.
54:47 And so there is something that excites me
54:49 of what will I learn in this process, you now?
54:52 And what is there, what is for me?
54:55 It may not look maybe like the goal that I have set before,
54:59 but I think that there is some thing powerful there.
55:02 Oh Speaking of helping folks,
55:16 this is a perfect time for our questions from Ashley in Long Beach.
55:21 When you consider a new venture,
55:24 what signals tell you it's time to pivot and what criteria help you decide what
55:28 to say yes to and what to lovingly release when your time and energy are finite?
55:34 For those of us with many callings and limited capacity,
55:37 how do we pursue the next thing without sacrificing impact or our wellbeing?
55:42 That's a good question,
55:43 because I feel like it's what I've been grappling with as well.
55:48 I know one place I like to start with is asking myself, is there an impact here?
55:55 Do I have purpose here?
55:56 Do I something to give instead of just
56:00 thinking purely about things that are practical?
56:05 And so I think that if there is
56:07 something that's bigger than yourself also there, that.
56:11 You know, that's a good indication that you're where you're supposed to be.
56:15 So that's my first kind of thoughts.
56:19 Well, and I, especially Ashley is a woman.
56:26 Like, guess what?
56:28 We don't, we can do stuff just for us, you know?
56:32 I mean, because I'm just listening and it's like, guess what?
56:35 You don't have to have a bigger purpose.
56:38 LeBron doesn't have a bigger purpose,
56:40 Tom Brady didn't have, didn't have a big purpose.
56:44 I mean men decide they want to do it.
56:47 They do it regardless of whether their family wants it or anybody wants it.
56:55 Sometimes it's grounded and what does your heart tell you you want?
57:00 And I think as women, it's okay for us.
57:04 To look at what we want and to start
57:07 from that place of how does this make me feel?
57:11 What what am I getting out of it?
57:13 You know, and and it's okay to start there as a woman You know
57:18 We don't have to have a bigger purpose you your goal That's a lot
57:22 of things that we will do around the table will impact other people and that's
57:26 for all of us As people who grew up with service in our minds,
57:30 that's always going to be there You know,
57:32 so it's not even like you got to put that in your head or, you know,
57:36 if Ashley doesn't have to put that in her head because it's already there.
57:40 But I think it's okay to be driven by the thing that you care about.
57:45 You know?
57:45 I tell young people, if you don't know what you want to be,
57:48 then start thinking about what you like, you know, what you enjoy.
57:53 What, what, what if you're going to do something really well,
57:57 it, you've got to have some level of excitement.
58:00 To get up every day and train
58:02 for the next several years to qualify for the Olympics.
58:07 You, Allison, have to wanna get up
58:11 everyday because nobody's gonna be watching the process.
58:14 Just like you said, that's the curse of the Olympic athlete.
58:18 You train in the dark, you leave in the darkness, and there's one meet.
58:25 There's one chance.
58:26 That's all it is.
58:28 It's 21 seconds, yeah.
58:31 And then everything else, you know, people may not care.
58:36 You may not get anything afterwards.
58:37 So it's all about what you want.
58:39 And I think for Ashley and for anyone out there making choices,
58:44 I think it's perfectly fine to start with what will bring me joy,
58:50 what will get me out of bed.
58:52 And if the thing I'm doing right now isn't doing
58:55 that, then let me take some time to figure that out.
58:59 And I think young people have to understand that, you know,
59:03 in life, you don't pick a one thing oftentimes and do it forever.
59:08 The world isn't even designed like that anymore.
59:11 Gone are the days when our grandparents retired
59:14 from 35 years and got the gold watch.
59:17 Company corporations don't show that kind of loyalty
59:20 to people as we saw with Nike.
59:22 Yes.
59:22 So you have to be wired to have some level of flexibility.
59:27 To analyze where am I now?
59:29 Is it time for me to move on?
59:31 And some of that's going to come from what's happening day to day.
59:35 Is there no longer a path,
59:39 way for you that makes you excited in what you're doing?
59:43 You know, there may not be the support in your current activity that gives
59:48 you the signal that maybe it's time for you to do something else.
59:51 Um, so there are many cues in life, but the ability to remain flexible.
59:57 You know, and to be nimble, you know,
1:00:01 just even having a nimble mind in constantly
1:00:04 thinking about your situation and what's coming next.
1:00:09 I think that also helps to prepare you and to give
1:00:14 you the clues to whether it's time to do something else.
1:00:18 This has been great.
1:00:19 You know, it has been, it's like talking to a mirror image without the metal.
1:00:27 Without the medals, but, you know, and the shoe company.
1:00:32 A few other things, I think, yeah.
1:00:35 I think you're doing okay.
1:00:38 This is exciting.
1:00:43 I hope you document the journey.
1:00:46 I know you might want to do it in quiet, but I think the way you train,
1:00:53 the way, you mentally prepare, how you move through life,
1:01:00 just as in She Runs the World.
1:01:03 Mm-hmm.
1:01:03 That is a powerful way to tell a story.
1:01:06 So it is a story that I hope people can
1:01:08 connect with and I hope go through it with me.
1:01:12 Yeah So yeah, I will definitely want to bring everyone in.
1:01:15 Well, we're going to be there with you.
1:01:19 We support you, cheer you both on.
1:01:23 Please keep us in mind, and if you want to come back on to talk
1:01:27 about the journey as you're going through it,
1:01:30 if you wanna scream, yell, shout, we welcome you back any time.
1:01:38 Thank you so much.
1:01:39 And I know nothing about track, but I am a good cheerleader, so strong coach.
1:01:45 Yeah, a coach and all, so yeah.
1:01:47 Yeah, you get that early morning and you just don't feel it.
1:01:50 Just just give us a call I appreciate that.
1:01:52 I will.
1:01:54 Like, telling someone outside of...
1:01:58 You say that.
1:01:59 She just told her mom yesterday.
1:02:01 Oh my.
1:02:03 This is like, this is really...
1:02:05 How does it feel?
1:02:06 It feels like, it feels good.
1:02:08 It feels, it feels like it's something I'm supposed to do.
1:02:12 Like, no matter how it ends up.
1:02:15 I think, you know, Craig, what you said, it's,
1:02:17 it's the journey and it's one I'm excited to take.
1:02:20 I'm a little scared.
1:02:21 But I think that, well,
1:02:24 I hope that it's one that other people also can understand that, you know,
1:02:29 we might be doing different things, but it's the same.
1:02:35 I'm sorry.