Daisy Kelliher On Firing Mike: "I Felt Backed Into A Corner" | BDDU After Show (S4 E14) Pt 1 | Bravo

0:00 Maybe it's a little bit manipulative on my part.

0:02 Give them a cuddle and they'll join part of my army.

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0:08 I need you to leave the boat today.

0:10 I'm sending you home.

0:11 Yeah, I lost all sense of passion.

0:13 You know what?

0:14 Let's take a moment of silence.

0:15 He was an agent of chaos.

0:17 Yeah.

0:17 Apparently that whenever you go into the room

0:19 that you're like bitching about me and stuff.

0:23 What?

0:24 That just made it really easy for me to change the cabins around.

0:29 the cheesecake.

0:30 Boy, she took the cabin.

0:31 It was like, come on, girl.

0:33 They're all over each other.

0:34 That is [music] weird.

0:35 Their arms in places I don't understand.

0:38 I've got nothing else to do.

0:40 So, yeah.

0:40 This would not be Jewel's first disloyal moment.

0:43 The Below Deck Down Under after show starts right now.

0:47 Let's pretend dinner is at like 8:00 p.m.

0:49 Ben comes to me at like 10:00 to 8:00

0:52 asking for Tabasco sauce for the shrimp dinner being late.

0:58 And I go to help because that's my job.

1:00 I was okay with that.

1:02 Just placing the shrimp around the martini glass.

1:05 How many on each?

1:07 Four.

1:07 Please.

1:08 She's struggling to attach the shrimp cuz it's like it is an awkward angle.

1:12 I'm standing right here.

1:13 The shrimp is here.

1:14 I'm like, okay, let me just attach it here.

1:17 It was such a quick moment and it was kind of one of those things where like,

1:20 did that just happen?

1:22 Okay.

1:23 Thank you.

1:24 Thank you.

1:26 Okay.

1:27 Yep.

1:28 We're good.

1:30 She is out here acting like she got stoned with shrimp.

1:32 Like I was throwing the shrimp at her.

1:34 I tackled her to the ground.

1:35 I was just shoving shrimp in her face.

1:37 It's the galley.

1:38 People have taken things out of my hands.

1:40 Captain Jason has taken things out of my hands.

1:41 Ben has taken things out of my hands.

1:43 It It's not that serious.

1:45 You don't care what hands are doing what.

1:47 Right now, I don't.

1:47 I believe that Ellie has pride and I

1:50 believe that she can be slightly territorial as well.

1:53 So, it was a bad concoction.

1:55 I don't think it was about the shrimp.

1:57 It's not.

1:58 It's not about the pasta.

1:59 This is not about the shrimp.

2:02 This is about what the shrimp represents.

2:05 She was mad I took her man, so she took my shrimp.

2:08 She got the guy.

2:09 Like that's the part I'm confused about.

2:11 Like first of all, I'm not even looking at this guy.

2:13 Like I literally I cannot even stand his presence.

2:16 I'm not fighting with you over the guy.

2:18 You got him.

2:21 [laughter]

2:20 So, why are you having all this animosity towards me?

2:23 Like it makes absolutely no freaking sense.

2:25 That's my job to help the chef.

2:27 So, that's what I do.

2:28 my job to help the chef.

2:29 We're all a team.

2:30 We're all there to help.

2:31 Don't grab something out of my hands when we're in the middle of dinner service.

2:34 Daisy.

2:35 I probably represented a figure that she didn't like.

2:38 I was in charge, so maybe I was getting what I deserved.

2:43 What I saw in the galley was Ellie taking

2:47 ownership of her position and I'm sure she was stressed.

2:51 I'm sure she was uh outside her box, you know,

2:54 and then she's obviously we talked about how

2:55 the environment had to change in the galley as well.

2:58 And I just think you can only hold all that in for so long.

3:00 Yeah, for sure.

3:08 I think he applied for Love Island and got

3:09 Below Deck and felt like he took a wrong turn.

3:12 He's like, I asked for Fiji, not the Caribbean and I asked for a villa,

3:15 not a yacht where I'm supposed to work.

3:17 That's true.

3:18 You know what?

3:19 Let's take a moment of silence.

3:20 He was an agent of chaos.

3:22 He also went out with a bang.

3:23 Like, I'm the deck chief.

3:24 I've got the head of department.

3:25 Okay, you're working till 9:00 p.m.

3:27 tonight.

3:29 We'll see about that.

3:31 Excuse me?

3:32 What did you just say to me?

3:34 I said I'm not working till 9:00 p.m.

3:35 tonight.

3:35 Okay, you can get off the boat.

3:37 [music] Get off the boat.

3:38 With this stage of the game,

3:40 I've been confronted by Alesia to sort this problem out.

3:44 I've had Jenna, you know, complain several times to me about Mike.

3:49 Mike was difficult to train.

3:51 By the time we had our confrontation, I felt backed into a corner.

3:55 I don't know what else I could have done.

3:57 He was not listening to me.

3:58 I'd had so many final warnings.

4:01 At the end of the day, she's got experience.

4:02 You know, if she thinks that she can improve her team

4:05 and doesn't want to tolerate that person in her team anymore,

4:09 I'm going to back her up.

4:10 You know, there's no no questions about it.

4:12 Daisy and Jewel have done everything possible to help you flourish here.

4:15 You think this is a bit of a joke.

4:17 I won't tolerate it.

4:19 I need you to leave the boat today.

4:21 I'm sending you home.

4:23 When I left the boat, I had a massive sense of relief.

4:26 And that's when I knew my time was at an end.

4:30 Do I disagree with Daisy's decision?

4:32 Absolutely not.

4:33 She made the right call and I was completely uh accepting of it, you know.

4:37 It made us feel like, you know what?

4:39 Like this deck chief position isn't for you.

4:42 But what it did make us realize is that every time I went on that deck,

4:45 I absolutely loved it.

4:49 when it came on on deck and yeah, I saw that.

4:51 I never had a problem with you on deck as far [clears throat] as work.

4:54 When you were there, when you could be there, though.

4:56 That's Yeah, of course.

4:57 The steward side of things, I just felt I was just very,

5:00 very bored and I lost all sense of passion.

5:03 I lost all sense of wanting to to be in this in this role.

5:07 But if I had have dealt with it better and just spoken to Daisy,

5:11 I think things probably would have been a lot

5:13 different and I probably wouldn't have been sacked.

5:15 I know he will come up with excuses like,

5:17 oh, if I was on deck and I wasn't bored.

5:20 doing his job really well.

5:21 Nothing have changed for me.

5:23 I was I was already ignoring Mike, you know.

5:26 Someone is just missing, absent.

5:28 Okay.

5:29 It was already absent because he wasn't doing much.

5:33 Mikey got too big for his boots and thought

5:35 that he could just do and say anything he wanted.

5:38 So, something needed to be done.

5:40 He wasn't going to change, but like maybe we could have given him

5:43 a bit more like correction before firing him.

5:46 Cuz at least he was reinstating.

5:47 I tried to work me tongue with Daisy a little bit.

5:49 Daisy, seal the deal with a little kiss.

5:51 Nope.

5:53 And I did say I think at one point in, well,

5:55 how else was I going to keep me job?

5:57 But really deep down, I did actually generally like Daisy and all that.

6:01 I did think a lot of her, you know, not just as a in regards to work,

6:05 but in regards to who she is as a person, you know.

6:07 If it weren't on the boat in the work environment,

6:09 I think things probably would have been a bit different.

6:10 Mike.

6:11 I don't have an issue with him.

6:12 What made me really sad, I didn't want to see him go.

6:14 That doesn't make me feel good in any way.

6:17 I wish we could have been able to resolve it.

6:19 I did try all season.

6:21 And as much as I wind you up and as much as I upset him,

6:24 I do respect Jewel as a captain, his knowledge, his experience and as a person

6:29 and what Jewel has came from, you know, he said on his first season as he was

6:33 this character and um it all went pear-shaped and you know,

6:37 to where he's got to today is just something that I'm going to have

6:40 to look at and do as a deckhand and to see what is actually achievable.

6:43 I must say, thank you.

6:45 I appreciate that.

6:45 I must say, no, no, honestly, I I appreciate that.

6:48 Very nice to hear.

6:49 The funny thing about all of this is that even like with Alesia,

6:51 I I I generally liked all of the crew.

6:55 you stand with Mikey?

6:56 Well, Mikey stopped pissing me off.

6:57 So, now now I just love Mikey.

7:00 Sorry, I'm such a Mike team.

7:01 Like I'm on his team like through and through.

7:03 I think he's a funny guy.

7:05 Would you ever date a guy like Mike?

7:09 What?

7:09 Someone like me with Mikey?

7:10 Absolutely not.

7:12 It would end in tears.

7:14 I think he's a great friend to have,

7:16 but like I don't find him sexually attractive at all,

7:19 but I probably would give it a go just for a little just for the banter.

7:21 He's probably quite good in bed, too.

7:23 Like I've seen his willy on OnlyFans.

7:25 So, like at least he's packing.

7:34 Do you feel betrayed by Jewel for leaving your cabin with your bro quarters?

7:37 The thing that pissed me off the most was Jewel selected our cabin right next

7:41 to the crew's quarters and right above the stabilizers

7:44 and it was really noisy and I couldn't sleep.

7:47 And then suddenly he went to the Ritz-Carlton down the corridor.

7:50 I need to start thinking about cabins because it's definitely a female.

7:54 She commented.

7:55 shake Daisy.

7:57 Well, you joke, boss.

8:00 Logistically, I needed something that worked

8:03 and spitefully don't create problems in my department.

8:07 Apparently that whenever you go into the room

8:09 that you're like bitching about me and stuff.

8:12 What?

8:13 That just made it really easy for me to change the cabins around.

8:18 the cheesecake.

8:19 She took Boy, she took the cabin.

8:21 It was like, come on, girl.

8:22 I don't actually think Daisy realized what she was doing with you and Ben.

8:26 Is the guy that's coming No, I'm moving in with Ben.

8:30 What?

8:31 Did you ask her why?

8:33 She didn't see the problem.

8:34 She was like she thought she created a solution,

8:37 but she never thought of Ben and Eddie and how that could I was so naive.

8:42 I never still thought that the whole Ben Jenna thing was a thing.

8:46 And so, obviously I didn't read into that thinking moving into the room.

8:49 I remember you telling me that you you

8:50 actually hadn't uh thought of that until after.

8:54 Yeah, like I didn't think of the Eddie and the Ben thing.

8:57 Guess what I just did.

8:59 They're adults, you know, like that's something that, you know,

9:01 they should be able to get over.

9:03 Originally, the girls were not going to move.

9:05 I was going to put the three boys into the cabin and I went to Ben and I said,

9:10 the three of you are going to share a cabin.

9:12 And he said, I am not sharing a cabin with two other boys.

9:15 My roommate got replaced as a smelly guy to another smelly guy.

9:21 I was in piggy heaven.

9:22 Male roommates, it's not preferable.

9:24 I would actually rather much rather have my own space.

9:27 Jewel, I was more familiar with, so it was nicer

9:31 living with someone that I knew a little bit more.

9:33 He's like staying at your house.

9:35 Like when he was in town.

9:36 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

9:36 I had to hide my towel.

9:38 Because he would just if it was there and it was dry, he'd use it.

9:41 You know what I mean?

9:42 He would put my shoes on and walk out with my shoes.

9:44 [laughter] Like I just Yeah,

9:46 so moving [clears throat] into to the room with Daisy,

9:48 everything was like pristine and clean and I love Ben,

9:51 but he kept me up all night.

9:54 We had a lot of pillow chat.

9:55 Rooming with Jewel.

9:57 He'll get up and you're like look around

9:59 and you know and then he'll go back down.

10:00 He'll get up and then he'll pour himself a glass

10:02 of brandy or rum and then he'll go back down.

10:05 And then if he catches one person within that time, which is usually me.

10:10 If I'm in bed, I'll pretend to sleep even if he like wakes up, no, I'm out.

10:14 Sorry, mate.

10:15 I'm not I'm not I'm not dealing with this, you know?

10:17 So, going to a room where I could just,

10:20 you know, switch off the lights and sleep it was fantastic.

10:23 This was the the right way forward,

10:26 but it was either going to be the three boys sharing each

10:28 with each other or it was going to be the way it was.

10:32 That was it.

10:32 That was the only two options we had.