SPEAK ENGLISH POWERFULLY: Lesson 1 | Free English Course
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0:00 Today, I'm going to show you two
0:02 simple ways to speak more powerfully in English.
0:06 Now, these techniques, once you start using them,
0:09 will not only help people to understand you better,
0:13 but also to pay attention to what you're saying,
0:16 and to respect what you're saying more.
0:19 And therefore, you will come across as a more confident speaker in English.
0:24 Okay?
0:25 Would you like to do that?
0:27 Let's get started.
0:28 The first way is simply to remove the contraction.
0:33 What is a contraction?
0:34 A contraction is when we combine two words.
0:38 For example, instead of saying "I will", we say "I'll".
0:43 So "I'll" is the contraction, right?
0:46 Instead of saying "I am", we say "I'm".
0:49 So "I'm" is the contraction.
0:51 But now, what we're going to do is we are going to remove these contractions.
0:58 Not all the time, but at certain times
1:00 when you want to speak more powerfully and clearly.
1:04 Let's look at an example, and you'll understand very easily how powerful
1:10 this technique is and how useful it is.
1:13 Okay?
1:13 Let's try it.
1:14 So, instead of saying to John, "Yes, John,
1:17 that's important", let's say John said something okay?
1:21 And you say, "Yes, John, that's important." Nothing wrong with that.
1:26 Or we could say, "Yes, John, that is important." What did we do?
1:33 We took away the contraction.
1:35 We removed the contraction.
1:37 "Yes, John, that is important." John feels heard also, right?
1:44 Next, instead of saying to Mary, "Yes, Mary, you're right.
1:49 It's been a hard week." You could say that.
1:52 Or "Yes, Mary, it has been a hard week." Now, Mary feels validated.
2:00 Mary feels more connected to you also
2:02 because you're agreeing with her so powerfully.
2:06 Okay?
2:07 So, this will also improve your connection with people.
2:12 Let's look at another example.
2:13 Here, before we get to the other example,
2:16 so here what we did is we were strengthening it, right?
2:19 We were confirming that.
2:21 Here, we are clarifying or correcting it.
2:24 So, for example, if someone says to you, "So, you're not available tomorrow,
2:29 right?" And you say, "No, I'm available tomorrow." Or, "No,
2:35 I am available tomorrow." So you want to emphasize,
2:39 you want to clarify and correct what that other person was saying.
2:44 "Yes, I am available tomorrow." Or someone says,
2:49 "You haven't completed the project yet, right?" And you say,
2:53 "Yeah, we've completed the project." Sounds okay, not very impressive,
2:58 and completing a project is something important, right?
3:02 So you can say instead, "No, we have completed the project.
3:06 We are so proud.
3:08 We have completed it." Get it?
3:11 So, what did we do in all cases?
3:13 We removed the contraction.
3:16 You can't speak like this all the time, you cannot speak like this all the time,
3:21 but definitely at certain points when you use this strategy,
3:24 you will sound much more powerful.
3:27 Now, what's another way to sound even stronger?
3:32 That is to remove the negative contraction.
3:35 You got it, right.
3:37 Let's see how it works, okay?
3:39 And again, we can use this in business,
3:42 in academic context, personal situations, social situations, anything, okay?
3:48 Let's see how it sounds.
3:50 Instead of saying, "They can't meet the project deadline",
3:53 or some people might just say it really fast,
3:57 "They can't meet the project deadline",
3:59 and the person sometimes doesn't even hear the word "can't".
4:03 Because if you don't say that correctly, it can sound like "they can",
4:07 and then you're giving the wrong message,
4:09 not just a weak message, but a wrong message.
4:13 So here, you could say, for sure,
4:17 "They cannot meet the project deadline." And yes, "cannot" is one word, okay?
4:24 "They cannot meet the project deadline." So when
4:27 someone hears that, they will hear you clearly,
4:30 there'll be no mistakes, and it's very, very strong.
4:33 Next.
4:34 "The professor didn't agree." Or "The professor did not agree.
4:43 The professor did not agree." Again, you can feel the difference, right?
4:48 I know.
4:50 The next one, "She hasn't received her visa yet."
4:54 Or, "She has not received her visa yet." Okay?
5:01 And another one, "I won't be able to attend the meeting." Again,
5:06 if you don't say this word clearly, people may misunderstand you.
5:10 So break it up.
5:12 Break up the negative contraction, right?
5:14 And say, "I will not...
5:16 I will not be able to attend the meeting." Okay?
5:20 That way, you're not, in all cases, is very clear and independent,
5:26 and the message is also very clear and also not mistaken.
5:32 All right?
5:32 And you'll sound much better,
5:34 people will enjoy speaking to you more, and they'll...
5:36 Because why?
5:38 Because they understand you now, right away, easily, quickly.
5:42 All right?
5:43 Okay.
5:43 Now, let's do a little practice to make sure you've mastered this.
5:46 So before we begin our practice, please know this is one of a series of lessons
5:51 that we have on how to speak more powerfully in English,
5:56 so watch the other lessons as well.
5:59 Now let's begin.
6:01 I'm going to read the contracted sentence,
6:04 and then you tell me the full form, and then we'll say them aloud together.
6:10 This is the best way for you to really feel the difference.
6:14 All right?
6:15 So, here's the first one.
6:17 "We're the best team." How can you improve that?
6:26 "We are the best team." Say it with me.
6:29 "We are the best team." And if you can do this, that's even better.
6:33 Okay?
6:34 A little bit of body language.
6:36 "We are the best team." Next,
6:40 "I wouldn't recommend that company." Find the contraction,
6:46 remove it, say the full form.
6:50 What is it?
6:53 "I would not recommend that company." Say it with me.
6:58 "I would not recommend that company." Good for you.
7:03 That's a firm sentence.
7:05 Next, "That's a good idea." Or, say it with me, "That is a good idea.
7:17 That is a good idea." Number four,
7:22 "They shouldn't sign the contract." What would that be?
7:29 "They should not sign the contract." Repeat after me.
7:34 "They should not sign the contract." Also, you see,
7:37 it's so important because if you say this word really fast,
7:41 people might not even hear that negative part, right?
7:44 "They shouldn't sign the contract." What did you say?
7:47 Positive, negative, "I should", "I shouldn't", what did they say, right?
7:51 "They should not sign the contract" is very clear.
7:57 Next, "Don't worry.
7:58 I'll call you tonight." Now, let's say this is something really important,
8:03 you want to make sure that the person doesn't worry,
8:06 so you say, "Don't worry, I will call you tonight." Let's say it together,
8:14 "Don't worry, I will call you tonight." Great.
8:19 Number six, "The employees haven't returned yet." Say the full form,
8:28 "The employees have not returned yet." Say it together,
8:33 "The employees have not returned yet." Okay?
8:37 You're really emphasizing that.
8:38 As I said, sometimes you're clarifying because somebody
8:41 thinks the employees have returned, but they have not.
8:45 You want to emphasize it.
8:47 In all cases, you're emphasizing something by confirming
8:50 it or by clarifying and correcting it.
8:53 Okay?
8:54 Next, let's say somebody misses their flight and they're
8:58 worried and they go to the airline counter, and then the person said,
9:03 "There's a flight tonight." Or, "There is a flight tonight." Say it with me,
9:12 "There is a flight tonight.
9:13 Don't worry." Okay?
9:17 Next, number eight, "They've sent the invoice." Say it with me now,
9:26 "They have sent the invoice." "They have sent the invoice." In this case,
9:33 you might not be happy, but that's the fact.
9:35 You have to clarify it.
9:36 Right?
9:37 Next, number nine, "We've reviewed the data" or "data",
9:42 pronounced both ways, "We've reviewed the data",
9:47 "We have reviewed the data." Say it with me,
9:54 "We have reviewed the data." And it's fine, it's correct, it's accurate.
9:59 Okay?
9:59 Like that.
10:00 You're emphasizing it.
10:02 And the last one, "They don't want to sell the house." What's the full form?
10:11 "They do not want to sell the house." Repeat after me,
10:15 "They do not want to sell the house." Did
10:18 you feel the difference when you were saying these?
10:21 Don't they sound so much stronger, clearer?
10:24 And there's no question what anybody is
10:27 going to understand when you speak like this.
10:31 All right?
10:31 So, start doing this from today.
10:34 Say the sentences out loud, go back if you need to, practice again,
10:38 but say the sentences out loud.
10:40 It's not enough to think them in your head, because this is about speaking.
10:44 All right?
10:45 And as I said, this is a series,
10:47 so watch the other lessons, you will become a more powerful English speaker.
10:52 Thanks for watching.
10:53 All the best with your English.