Why Dan Fleyshman Never Stops Working... | DSH #1953
Digital Social Hour Podcast by Sean Kelly
0:00 I don't ever guess about the ups and downs of Bitcoin.
0:02 I just know for a fact without a shadow of a doubt,
0:04 it will be worth [music] millions and millions
0:06 of dollars per Bitcoin in the future.
0:07 There's no question.
0:08 There's no wondering.
0:08 There's no guessing.
0:09 There's no emotion.
0:10 It's a fact.
0:10 [music] If I try to wire transfer to you at 2:08 p.m., you get it tomorrow.
0:14 If I send you Friday at 2:08 p.m., you get it on Monday.
0:18 [music] Why?
0:17 Silly.
0:18 It's because they are making the money on the float for the night.
0:21 Why would they want to be faster?
0:23 There's no incentive for Wells Fargo, Bank of America, Chase [music]
0:25 to want to send you money faster.
0:27 They want to hold your money as long as possible and make the float.
0:37 Okay, guys.
0:38 Dan Fleyshman back on the show.
0:39 I believe it's your third time, right?
0:41 Oh, yeah.
0:41 Third time's a charm.
0:42 And you've been crushing it with your show, right?
0:44 Top three.
0:45 Yep.
0:46 You're in our business, right?
0:47 Yes.
0:47 Money Mondays.
0:48 Number 27 in the world across all podcasts.
0:50 I think you're like 16 right now.
0:52 Yeah, I always see you on the charts with me.
0:53 Yeah, it changes every day, but we're always neck and neck.
0:56 Um, what's new with you though, man?
0:58 Just throwing a bunch of events,
0:59 buying piece of companies, and just trying to scale.
1:01 Wow.
1:02 42 events a year, right?
1:03 Yes.
1:04 It's like almost one a week.
1:05 Yeah, well, sometimes there's three in the same weekend,
1:07 and then the following week may not be an event.
1:09 Um, and sometimes we try to combine them together in the same city,
1:12 even if it's a different style event or different type of crowd.
1:15 We'll just do it back-to-back cuz our staff is there.
1:18 Yeah.
1:18 Our AV team is there.
1:19 Makes it easier.
1:19 That makes sense.
1:20 You travel more than anyone I know.
1:21 I think I've told you this.
1:23 Yeah.
1:23 It's impressive.
1:24 250 days a year.
1:25 All right.
1:26 That's actually crazy.
1:27 So, you basically live life on the road.
1:28 Yes.
1:29 What a lifestyle.
1:30 And how long have you lived that life for?
1:32 Well, the events got really crazy after COVID.
1:35 You know, 2021 is when I went ballistic on events.
1:38 I was always throwing events,
1:39 but then starting to be involved in Meeting the Arena Tour,
1:43 Aspire Tour, Operation Black Site,
1:45 Elevator Night, The Masterminds, the charity events.
1:47 It was just like so many different brands events back-to-back-to-back.
1:50 Insane.
1:51 Yeah, I'm I'm Every time I see your story, you're in a new city.
1:54 Yes.
1:54 I I even yesterday when you got to Vegas, you spoke at an event,
1:57 then you came to mine, now you're speaking at Bitcoin conference, non-stop.
2:00 I try to pack it all in.
2:01 I just think how short life is and I'm going to die soon.
2:04 You're going to die soon?
2:05 I Well, 60 years is soon, too.
2:07 Like, if you think about it over the scope of life, right?
2:09 I don't know if it's going to be in 60 minutes or 60 days or 60 years.
2:12 I have no idea.
2:13 But, even 60 years is soon.
2:15 And so, I want to do as much as I can, you know.
2:17 I have realized cuz I've I've said this before on the show,
2:20 six of my guests have passed away since I started.
2:22 So, it does give you that sense of any moment could happen.
2:26 I had 39 friends under the age of 50 pass away.
2:29 Jeez.
2:30 And I have this list on my phone of the 39 friends and family,
2:33 and I think about it all the time, why life is so short.
2:36 Cuz some of them were buff athletes, some of them were young zillionaires,
2:40 some of them were just, you know, close friends and family,
2:42 and didn't make it to 38 years old and 44
2:45 years old and things like that that are younger than me.
2:47 And so, I just think about it, it could happen at any time for whatever reason.
2:51 And so, I want to do as much as humanly possible while I'm here.
2:53 I feel that.
2:53 Investing in Bitcoin early on helped with that, right?
2:56 Yeah, that was a fun ride.
2:58 And Ethereum.
2:59 Yes.
2:59 You did the first paper on Ethereum.
3:01 Yeah.
3:01 I did the very first news article about Ethereum in 2017.
3:04 It started from a Facebook post, and it just went viral,
3:07 and then Ink magazine and Forbes magazine started asking me questions,
3:11 and I did this articles for them.
3:13 Ethereum was 19 bucks.
3:14 Wow.
3:15 And the Ethereum Alliance came out.
3:17 That's why did this Facebook post.
3:19 And Ethereum Alliance basically said that a lot of the Fortune
3:22 500 companies will start to utilize Ethereum for their back ends.
3:26 And so, I said, "Okay, well, my post was essentially,
3:28 if it's good enough for Fortune 500 companies and their attorneys,
3:32 it's good enough for me." And so,
3:34 I bought a lot at $19, $190,000 worth at 19 bucks each.
3:38 It went up to $44, and I posted again, like, "Okay, guys,
3:41 just to be clear, research this." It wasn't a It wasn't like pitching Ethereum.
3:45 I was just explaining why I liked it.
3:48 And then over the next couple years, it went to 220, 550, etc.
3:51 And so, there was a lot of wild twists and turns along the way.
3:53 I sold chunks along the way.
3:55 I know I pretend like I kept all, you know, 190 grand worth at 19 bucks.
3:59 I did not.
3:59 I sold a lot at 220 and a lot more at 550.
4:02 Um I do have a funny story.
4:04 Yeah.
4:04 So remember Chase Hero?
4:05 Yeah.
4:06 At his wedding, um we set up like a poker
4:09 room casino night afterwards after the after the wedding.
4:12 And we had like all these fake games
4:14 for roulette and blackjack and all these things
4:16 that people could play and you know Chase knows
4:18 hundreds of people in the affiliate space, crypto space.
4:21 They're very very rich.
4:22 And so everyone's playing and one of the guys is losing a lot.
4:27 He's down and he's down 15 15,000 dollars and he
4:32 wants to bet five grand a hand across every spot.
4:37 I didn't want him to because I don't want him to lose or win that much money.
4:39 It's such a big swing.
4:41 But the funny story is he wins all the hands.
4:45 And not all the hands but enough hands that he ends
4:47 up net 15,000 and tips a thousand bucks to the dealer.
4:50 So 14,000 dollars.
4:52 Why does that matter?
4:54 This is like 3:00 in the morning.
4:56 At 7:00 in the morning I wake up
4:57 to my phone and there's a bunch of messages like, "You got to pay me this money.
5:00 You got to pay me this money." I was like, "Well, so come to my room.
5:03 I have the cash for you.
5:04 I'll give it to you right now." He's like, "No,
5:06 I'm in Vegas." We were in Newport Beach for the wedding at 3:00 in the morning.
5:11 By 7:00 a.m.
5:11 he was in Vegas.
5:13 And so I was arguing with him like, "Okay,
5:16 but the the brunch is here." He's like, "Yeah,
5:18 I know but I came here to bet football." I'm like,
5:19 "Yeah, but the brunch for the wedding is here.
5:21 Come back.
5:21 I'll give you the cash." "No, no, you got to pay me right this second.
5:24 I'm about to bet sports." So I send this kid Jesse Sylvia,
5:28 the guy that got second place in the World Series of Poker main event.
5:31 I said, "Hey, can I send you 333 Ethereum cuz it was 41 dollars?" Yeah.
5:37 It ended up being 14,000 dollars worth of Ethereum.
5:40 "Can you give this guy 14 grand in cash
5:42 so he can go bet sports?" He said, "Sure." Well, if you think about it,
5:46 the 333 Ethereum I sent him is now worth over a million dollars.
5:49 Oh my The only good thing I will say is it went to Jesse,
5:53 not to this guy that was a jerk.
5:54 It went to Jesse, so What a story.
5:56 It's like the guy that bought a pizza with Bitcoin.
5:59 Yes.
5:59 And now it's like a billion dollars.
6:00 Right.
6:01 And every year he's got to relive it cuz it goes viral every year.
6:04 Yeah.
6:04 Or the guy that lost his Bitcoin keys and he's doing the bulldozers.
6:08 He finally gave up?
6:09 Yeah, I saw that.
6:10 A few weeks ago, finally gave up.
6:11 Crazy, dude.
6:11 I mean, I don't think he ever had a chance.
6:13 What ifs?
6:13 I mean, I was using it in high school.
6:15 Right.
6:16 I feel like we all have similar stories, right?
6:18 Oh, if you look at my phone,
6:19 I can show you the some of the transactions from 2014.
6:22 I was buying it at 340 bucks.
6:24 But I would trade it back and forth.
6:25 10K here, 2K here, 5K.
6:26 I didn't think about it.
6:27 Like, jeez.
6:27 I was using it.
6:28 I wasn't just thinking about it as an investment.
6:30 I was just using Bitcoin.
6:32 And it was hard back then.
6:33 It's still hard now, but it was really hard back then.
6:35 Now you could buy a lot with it.
6:36 Like almost anything.
6:38 What do you think about the future of it?
6:39 Cuz there's some people saying a million.
6:41 Yeah, there is literally no question Bitcoin
6:44 will be worth millions of dollars per coin.
6:46 It's like an actual 0% possibility to not happen.
6:48 Really?
6:49 Because of supply and demand.
6:50 What people don't think about is out of the 21 million Bitcoin,
6:53 4.6 million Bitcoin are missing and they're never coming back.
6:57 There's no CEO, there's no customer service,
6:59 there's no one to call, there's no office.
7:01 So, when those Bitcoin are missing, the supply goes down.
7:04 Why are the 4.6 million Bitcoin missing?
7:07 Cuz every day people lose their wallets,
7:09 lose their phones, lose their storage, or lose their lives.
7:13 And every day from now and then to the future,
7:16 people lose their phones, wallets, storage, and lives.
7:19 Imagine someone dies right now,
7:20 how hard it would be to get their Bitcoin off their phone or their laptop.
7:23 It's really difficult.
7:25 When it's gone, the supply goes less.
7:27 So, 4.6 million, 5.2 million, 5.8 million are missing,
7:30 that supply from 21 million gets really small,
7:33 probably down to 11, 12, 13 million range.
7:36 Then you have people that are Bitcoin maximalists
7:37 that are buying lots of Bitcoin that will never sell.
7:40 And they own a lot of Bitcoin.
7:41 They're going to keep buying it,
7:42 like a Chamath, for example, or Michael Saylor, etc.
7:45 That Bitcoin is also not in supply.
7:48 It's out there.
7:49 You can't buy it from him.
7:50 Go offer Michael Saylor money right now.
7:52 Go offer Chamath money, right?
7:54 You can't buy it from them.
7:55 And then you're also going to have what's called the rounding error.
7:58 Sean Kelly has $42 in like a random wallet.
8:00 Like you're not using that.
8:02 Imagine that 17 million people have 42 bucks in a random wallet.
8:05 They're not using it.
8:06 That's not in supply, either.
8:07 It's out there, but people don't think about it cuz it's 42 bucks, 100 bucks.
8:10 That's called the rounding error.
8:12 What happens when 200 million people have 42 bucks
8:15 and little pieces of Bitcoin just sitting in a random wallet?
8:18 So, the supply is going to get less and less and less,
8:20 and the demand is going to get bigger and bigger and bigger.
8:22 And the children that are growing up
8:24 are going to be very comfortable buying Bitcoin.
8:26 The Bitcoin maximalists are always going to buy Bitcoin.
8:28 So, there's always going to be lots of buyers,
8:30 and the supply is getting less and less and less.
8:33 Yeah, the maxis never sell,
8:34 and some of them even take a loan out against their portfolio.
8:37 Sure.
8:37 You know, that's how the the elites use their money.
8:39 Yeah.
8:39 So, I I I think it definitely I don't know.
8:42 They're saying this is the last super cycle or whatever, but who knows?
8:45 It's hard to predict.
8:46 I don't ever guess about the ups and downs of Bitcoin.
8:49 I just know for a fact, without a shadow of a doubt,
8:51 it will be worth millions and millions of dollars per Bitcoin in the future.
8:54 There's no question.
8:54 There's no wondering.
8:55 There's no guessing.
8:55 There's no emotion.
8:56 It's a fact.
8:57 What about Ethereum?
8:58 So, Ethereum's harder cuz supply is much bigger.
9:01 And so, the reason I can be so passionate about Bitcoin,
9:04 Ethereum is a better function and use of a cryptocurrency, right?
9:07 Use of blockchain, use of everything.
9:09 Ethereum is more functional.
9:10 It powers our NFTs.
9:12 It powers corporations.
9:13 Ethereum is a way better than Bitcoin.
9:15 However, Bitcoin is the granddaddy of them all.
9:18 And it took us a decade for people to feel comfortable,
9:20 and now we're on year 14 or 15 for people
9:22 to actually like get into the mix of Bitcoin,
9:24 where there's less of these bad PR stories and less of all this drama.
9:27 And so, Ethereum to me is the functional
9:29 tool that will be around forever and ever, and it's very useful.
9:32 But, I will say that there's a much bigger supply,
9:35 and so, from a supply and demand perspective,
9:37 it makes it hard for me to say what price it'll end up at.
9:40 Yeah.
9:40 Yeah.
9:40 Any other coins you are interested in?
9:43 So, there's like 14,000 different cryptocurrencies that are out there.
9:46 I look at the ones that have function to them.
9:49 There's a lot of people that like XRP, but to me,
9:51 I don't see Wells Fargo or bank in the middle of nowhere
9:55 in Nova Scotia or in Malta ever wanting to use it for wire transfers.
10:00 Why?
10:01 Because when you do a wire transfer to bank
10:03 and they're making the 30 or 40 bucks,
10:05 they're also making a small percentage on the float overnight.
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11:09 So, right now, if I try to wire Sean Kelly 100 grand,
11:13 it should take seconds, right?
11:14 I could send you Apple Pay, Venmo, Zelle,
11:16 Cash App, so many things that take seconds, Bitcoin, etc.
11:19 But, if I try to wire transfer to you at 2:08 p.m., you get it tomorrow.
11:24 Right.
11:24 If I send you Friday at 2:08 p.m., you get it on Monday.
11:26 Why?
11:27 Silly.
11:28 It's because they are They're the money on the float for the night.
11:33 Why would they want to be faster?
11:35 There's no incentive for Wells Fargo, Bank of America,
11:37 Chase to want to send you money faster.
11:39 They want to hold your money as long as possible and make the float.
11:43 Wow.
11:43 That's what PayPal does, too.
11:44 Of course, that's what they reserve on your account for 180 days.
11:47 Go to paypalsucks.com.
11:49 You'll see so many stories.
11:50 Yeah.
11:50 You'll see so many stories.
11:51 Oh my god.
11:52 Try PayPal.
11:52 All of them, right?
11:53 They hold your money for X amount of days and then they're making money on it.
11:56 Think about if you've got 64 grand
11:58 that they're holding for for you for 6 months.
12:00 Why would they need 6 months?
12:00 It's ridiculous.
12:03 They're holding your money 64,000.
12:05 What about the other 17 million accounts that they're holding two grand,
12:08 five grand, 10 grand, etc.?
12:09 It's billions of dollars.
12:11 What's a little percent of billions of dollars?
12:12 A lot.
12:14 You going to play in the World Series this year?
12:16 Yeah, so I typically only play like the one-day or two-day events,
12:19 which is very few of them,
12:20 like the super high rollers or the super um super turbos that are really fast.
12:25 The main event I want to play, but it's 2 weeks long and I'm you know.
12:29 I'm going to be I'm going to be busy.
12:30 I wish it was 10 days.
12:31 Long run, yeah.
12:32 Or if he makes the finals, yeah.
12:33 Wow.
12:33 I just had all the winner last year.
12:35 Yeah.
12:35 It was Hossein Ensan.
12:36 What a guy.
12:37 Yes.
12:37 I mean, when you look at that start, he said he was drinking every day.
12:40 He said he was going out partying,
12:41 sleeping 2 hours a day, and he still won the main event.
12:43 Yes.
12:43 That guy's different.
12:45 My my very first final table was with him.
12:47 Oh, really?
12:48 2005.
12:49 Wow.
12:49 Yeah.
12:49 My very first final table.
12:50 And he had a whole crew.
12:52 Listen, he has an innate skill and feel for the game.
12:56 He could literally play a full round without
12:58 looking at his cards and be the favorite.
13:00 No way.
13:00 He understands you.
13:01 Why is Sean sitting like that?
13:02 Why is Sean leaning forward?
13:03 Why does Sean look this way?
13:04 Why do you look at this like he feels it.
13:06 Not like a FBI agent studying you, but like a true poker wizard.
13:10 Like it's Oh.
13:11 And he knows what the wizards are doing and doesn't do that.
13:15 Like you said, he doesn't use your T 0 at all.
13:16 No, absolutely not.
13:17 Crazy.
13:18 No, he's calling with 4-6 off suit
13:20 random scenarios just knowing he can outplay you.
13:23 Yeah.
13:23 Just knowing he understands the scenario.
13:25 I've also seen him make big folds that people will never do cuz he can feel it.
13:29 Is he one of the best you've seen?
13:31 So every year there's a $25,000 fantasy draft.
13:34 It's called the the 25K fantasy draft that Daniel Negreanu hosts.
13:37 Yeah.
13:38 And every single year I I I draft Mike Matusow.
13:41 Every single year.
13:42 He won last year.
13:43 Except this year.
13:45 Dude.
13:45 If you go look at the stats, every year for a decade I've drafted Mike Matusow.
13:49 I'm like passionate about it.
13:51 I didn't know if he was going to play the full series.
13:54 Cuz he's doing deals with Venetian.
13:55 He's he's plays at other casinos and other events.
13:58 And he plays cash games.
13:59 And so I wasn't sure if he was going to play enough events volume-wise.
14:02 If he's going to play at least 20 or 30 events, of course I want to draft him.
14:06 I heard he was doing things with the Venetian and some other,
14:08 you know, other casinos.
14:10 Cuz I didn't know if he was going to put in the time.
14:11 And it's literally the first time in a decade I didn't draft him.
14:13 Oh my gosh.
14:14 Well, it cost me a quarter of a million dollars for first.
14:17 And I have six figures in side bets.
14:19 Wow.
14:19 So it literally cost me half a million dollars by not drafting him.
14:21 That's not Have you ever won that league?
14:23 Yeah.
14:23 Okay.
14:24 Yeah.
14:24 I've gotten first and third.
14:26 And look, and the side bets are what's really entertaining cuz,
14:29 you know, You You poker players love those side bets.
14:33 Yeah, cuz it's fun.
14:34 You're Some of them are are really hilarious and interesting, too.
14:38 Like who's going to last longer, who's going to go to the bathroom first.
14:40 There's all sorts of weird side bets.
14:42 Yeah, there's some wild ones.
14:43 Jeff Gross has a feud of like tattoos or something.
14:47 Yeah, the side bets are it's it makes people
14:51 when they say something like put up with their money.
14:53 A lot of times people will talk like I could do this.
14:56 So do it.
14:57 Like if Sean's like, oh, I can make 30 free throws in 10 minutes.
15:01 Okay, let's go bet.
15:01 Let's go bet.
15:02 Yeah.
15:02 You might be able to do it, go do it.
15:04 What's some memorable side bets you you you've done?
15:06 The Actually, the basketball one was There was
15:08 a guy at the Bellagio who was a hustler.
15:11 And he's just a good old boy from the Midwest,
15:13 a like clean-cut kid, like a farmer's boy.
15:15 And he'd like come in, he'd play poker.
15:17 And then randomly he'd be like, I can make 85 three-pointers out of 100.
15:21 No way.
15:22 And we're like, "No way." And we bet him.
15:26 He could actually make like 93 or 94, but he gave himself a cushion.
15:29 Woah.
15:30 Or he'd like say 85 and then go up to 88,
15:32 89, or 90 knowing he can make like 93 or 94.
15:36 And so it'd always be like a 5K bet, 5K bet, 5K bet.
15:38 And I was watching him do these bets all the time.
15:41 And I was so mesmerized by it.
15:42 I'd go watch even though I know he's going to do it.
15:45 [laughter] I know the result.
15:46 But he actually did it.
15:47 Oh, he won every time.
15:48 Holy crap.
15:49 That's the easiest money of all time for him.
15:51 Yeah.
15:51 There was also um What's that bird?
15:54 There's a bird that you can't eat every day for 30 days.
15:57 Um Bird?
15:58 Is it a fowl?
16:00 Can't eat it for 30 days.
16:01 There's a There's a bet that Doyle Brunson invented.
16:03 We could Google it.
16:04 Uh so Doyle Brunson used to have this bet where you had to eat quail quail.
16:10 How quail?
16:11 Yeah.
16:11 You had to eat quail every single day for 30 days.
16:13 Okay.
16:14 It seems easy enough, right?
16:15 That's easy.
16:15 Yeah.
16:16 No, but you can't do it.
16:17 Really?
16:17 Yeah.
16:17 Why?
16:19 There's something about the salt in the quail that it
16:21 builds up too much that you just can't do it.
16:23 No way.
16:24 And so quail a day was the bet that Doyle would do.
16:26 And other people started to do these side bets.
16:28 Antonio Esfandiari and others would try to make these side bets.
16:32 And everyone tried to figure out different hustles.
16:33 They're like, "Okay,
16:34 I'll just drink laxatives or I'll have smoothies
16:35 or I'll do this or that." Nobody wins.
16:37 Holy crap.
16:38 Quail a day.
16:39 Yeah, quail a day for 30 days.
16:40 I would have never knew that if I took that bet.
16:42 Yeah, if I if I offered you the bet, you'd probably take it.
16:43 I was like, "I'll give you 100K if you eat
16:45 a quail a day for 30 days." Like it seems so easy.
16:48 Like you could just mix it in with your salad.
16:50 It seems easy.
16:50 Was there an amount you had to eat?
16:51 Yeah.
16:52 I don't know the I don't know the details, but you can see it on
16:54 That makes sense.
16:55 Wow.
16:56 What's the most you won on one of these side bets?
16:59 Um what was it?
17:00 Any crazy odds that you like pulled off like a 30 to one odds or something?
17:05 No.
17:06 I don't remember any of the crazy ones.
17:07 Okay.
17:08 Yeah, I feel like something There have been crazy ones.
17:09 I'm just Yeah, some people have wild stories.
17:11 Uh the one Jeff told me was some guy had to get breast surgery.
17:16 Yes.
17:16 He wrote a book about that.
17:17 Yeah.
17:17 yeah.
17:17 was crazy.
17:18 Yeah, and he had to do it for a year, but he had a pair of them.
17:20 For a million dollars, yeah.
17:21 Yeah, so he just has fake breasts.
17:23 I don't know I don't know how long he kept them for, but I
17:26 mean maybe he just didn't want to do the surgery again or whatever that was.
17:29 Yeah.
17:29 For a million, that doesn't seem worth it to me.
17:31 No, absolutely not.
17:32 No, I had this debate about power slap all the time.
17:34 Like how much money would I need to do power slap?
17:37 Yeah, versus one of the pros?
17:38 Yeah, well they do it for 5 to 10K now allegedly.
17:40 So I was like, there's no way.
17:42 No.
17:43 Like what would you do that for?
17:44 To get slapped by the pro?
17:46 Uh Yeah, that's a good point.
17:48 Shawn Kelly or slapped by the pro?
17:49 Depends who's doing it I guess.
17:50 Uh a pro.
17:51 A pro, a lot.
17:53 Probably a lot.
17:54 Well, they have to be in your weight class though.
17:55 You would be class?
17:56 Oh, I would do that for sure.
17:57 How much do you weigh?
17:57 You're pretty light.
17:58 Yeah, I'm light.
17:58 Like 146.
17:59 You're tall for your height, so I feel like you have a little advantage.
18:02 Yeah, I I I think 500K.
18:04 I get to slap them back, too?
18:05 Yeah, you get three hits each.
18:07 Yeah, I probably just do it.
18:08 Really?
18:09 Yeah.
18:09 For free?
18:10 Yeah, I mean I I don't I don't want to, but I
18:12 would not If I If it's against me versus another guy,
18:15 but I'm playing against like the power guy, no.
18:18 You're going to get six figures.
18:19 Yeah.
18:20 That makes sense.
18:21 Um you got a couple Guinness World Records, which is on my bucket list to do.
18:24 So I want to learn about these.
18:26 How many do you have?
18:27 Uh we just got our second one recently.
18:29 Um We did the the 12th year of the world's largest toy drive.
18:33 And this last one, we had 240,000 toys.
18:36 Jeez.
18:36 119,000 of them in one session.
18:39 We did 10 cities, 17 days from Raider Stadium, Miami Heat Arena, Stadium, etc.
18:46 And we brought in like Allen Iverson, Damon John,
18:48 a lot of great characters have been helping
18:50 us make the toy drives that much bigger.
18:52 Um so our first Guinness Book of World Record was most toys in one hour.
18:57 But what's really hard is Shannon, who my best friend,
19:01 she had to touch every toy on camera for it to count.
19:05 Wow.
19:06 And so we set up like this assembly line Yeah, warehouse full of toys,
19:10 and she was walking by 1 2 3 4 5 6, 7, 8.
19:12 Why did they do that though?
19:14 It's to verify the the number.
19:16 Instead of just taking a picture or seeing it,
19:18 she had to touch it and say it out loud.
19:19 We have it on video.
19:20 I feel like that kind of limits it cuz if you want to do more,
19:23 she wouldn't be able to touch them all.
19:24 Yeah, that's the the most in one hour.
19:25 It's to verify that it's there.
19:28 Wow.
19:28 Yeah, and so we had like we stacked them up and as she touched them,
19:31 we'd have someone remove.
19:33 So she'd go back down the line.
19:34 Such impressive.
19:35 So be it's I don't see how anyone could could beat it.
19:38 Was this a category before you did it or no?
19:40 Uh was it a brand new uh No, there was a Yeah.
19:44 Okay.
19:44 Yeah.
19:44 That's what I'm trying to figure out
19:45 cuz there's certain podcasts that are already there,
19:47 but I want to kind of create a new one.
19:49 Well, what you could do I I could see
19:50 winning is something like most podcasts in a row.
19:53 That's what I want to go for.
19:54 Or like or like no sleep or something like
19:56 24 hours straight or 48 hours straight or whatever.
19:58 I want to do a 24-hour day just non-stop.
19:59 You can do it for sure.
20:00 Yeah.
20:00 Yeah.
20:01 Listen, yeah, there's a lot of things that I think Sean Kelly could pull off.
20:03 I've done 12, so 24 just double that.
20:06 Coffee and some snacks, I'd be good.
20:08 You could do it 24.
20:08 I've played poker for 4 days straight.
20:10 Before?
20:10 For real?
20:11 Yeah, with no sleep, no naps.
20:12 Your game must have been messed up by the third day, right?
20:14 I felt great.
20:15 Why?
20:15 So so delirious, I felt great.
20:17 That's nuts.
20:18 Yeah.
20:18 I mean, they say fasting makes you think sharper,
20:21 so you you probably weren't eating much.
20:22 I mean, I don't recommend it,
20:23 but like day two was harder than day three and four.
20:26 Like you you hit the you get delirious on day three.
20:28 Yeah, they say you're legally drunk, right?
20:30 On day two.
20:31 Yeah.
20:31 And you weren't feeling any of that?
20:32 I've done two days like 100 times.
20:34 Wow.
20:35 Three days I've done 30 or 40 or 50 times.
20:37 What do you average for a night for sleeping?
20:39 How many hours?
20:40 Normally uh five to six.
20:42 I was going to say, with your lifestyle it
20:43 must be super hard to get a consistent sleep schedule.
20:45 I I go to bed around 12:00 to 2:00 and I get up at 6:00 or 7:00.
20:49 So that it just depends.
20:50 And are you working the whole day?
20:51 Yeah, yeah.
20:52 No time for any of your hobbies or like I mean, my daughter,
20:56 but even then she's interacting with me when I'm working and stuff,
20:58 but um when I play poker, I'm on my phone still much of the time.
21:04 That's why I don't play a lot of tournaments.
21:05 So can't focus enough for a tournaments.
21:07 When you play cash games it's mostly at night time.
21:09 My phone gets quiet after 7:00 or 8:00 p.m.
21:12 My phone's intense from 6:00 a.m.
21:14 to 6:00 p.m.
21:15 And then it's quieter as it gets into the night.
21:17 Um it's still pretty active, but Yeah.
21:19 when it gets to like 8:00, 9:00, 10:00 p.m.
21:21 it's not active at all.
21:21 It's just Yeah, I relate to that man.
21:23 I just can't shut it off.
21:25 I love working.
21:26 You know, people are like why do you work so much?
21:29 I'm like dude, I love it.
21:30 If I gave you $50 million to not ever work again, could you do it?
21:34 No.
21:34 No.
21:35 And people think we're crazy for that, but I just love it dude.
21:38 I'd feel so much like a lack of purpose if I wasn't working.
21:44 Yeah.
21:43 Cuz I've been there like when I sold a a company
21:46 and I wasn't really working that much, I was depressed.
21:49 You know, with millions in the bank, didn't matter.
21:52 So $50 million wouldn't really do anything.
21:55 People think that the money is the end result.
21:57 The game is the result.
21:58 Like the game is the fun part for people that are addicted.
22:01 And again, I don't recommend it.
22:03 Most Most people should not be entrepreneurs.
22:05 Agreed.
22:05 It's not for everyone, especially now I feel like it's pretty hard actually.
22:09 Actually yes and no, like AI has made it somewhat easier.
22:11 It's easier than ever to start a company.
22:14 Obviously, with AI, with every platform you can imagine
22:17 makes it cheaper free to do anything you want.
22:19 Corporation, trademark, shipping, 3PL warehouse,
22:22 white label, like you can do anything.
22:23 Like we could come with a company now and be live tonight.
22:26 Yeah.
22:27 Literally tonight with full corporations
22:28 and trademarks and shipping internationally,
22:31 set up on Amazon warehouse, like we could do everything tonight.
22:34 But most people should be employee number three or number seven.
22:38 It's a way better life.
22:40 It's you're going to you actually get paid.
22:42 Employee number one is last to get paid.
22:44 Right.
22:44 Like stone cold last.
22:45 Employee number three and employee number seven,
22:47 they get paid throughout the whole time.
22:49 And so I don't even though I'm preaching about entrepreneurship all the time,
22:53 I actually don't tell you people to be entrepreneurs.
22:55 I'm just showcasing them how to do it if they are in it.
22:57 If you're sick enough to be an entrepreneur, then I want to explain it all,
23:01 but I want to explain the blunt reality of it, too.
23:03 Agreed.
23:04 I think it's important.
23:04 Have you ever worked for someone else?
23:06 In high school.
23:07 High school?
23:08 Yeah.
23:08 Peanuts, Cracker Jacks.
23:10 [laughter] I was selling peanuts, Cracker Jacks,
23:11 and cotton candy at the stadium at Qualcomm Stadium.
23:14 Uh it was Jack Murphy Stadium back then.
23:16 I worked at Ruby's Diner with a sailor's cap on.
23:18 And I worked for a stockbroker for cash under the table.
23:21 Okay.
23:21 I was 17.
23:22 But, I saved up that 43,000 during those 3 years,
23:25 and that's what I started my company with.
23:26 Nice.
23:26 And how long did it take to become a millionaire?
23:29 So, actually did our first million in this building.
23:31 Really?
23:31 At the Venetian.
23:33 Venetian?
23:32 Yeah.
23:33 What was that company?
23:34 It was called the Magic, the clothing convention.
23:36 Oh, you started that?
23:37 I didn't start Magic.
23:38 My first booth was at Magic.
23:39 Yeah.
23:40 But, it was here, the Venetian, in this hallway.
23:42 Wow.
23:42 And we did a million dollars in orders.
23:44 That's incredible.
23:44 Yeah.
23:45 I wasn't even allowed to legally get into the casino.
23:47 Oh, yeah, cuz you're not 21.
23:48 Yeah, I crazy butterfly effect.
23:50 The taxi driver cuz I got turned down for my own booth that I had paid for.
23:54 Mhm.
23:54 It was 3,400 bucks per 10 ft.
23:56 I went crazy and got 20 ft.
23:58 You know, I'm going to be huge.
23:59 I spent 6,800 bucks, out of 43,000, a lot of money.
24:04 We traveled here, we drove here from San Diego, had our samples with us,
24:07 and they turned us down cuz we couldn't get a badge, we weren't old enough.
24:11 And so, the taxi cab driver said,
24:13 "I know a business card vending machine at a grocery store.
24:17 Let's take you there,
24:18 and we'll make you business cards." I still have the cards.
24:21 Uh made this Who's Your Daddy the clothing line and my phone number.
24:25 And so, we made this business card, came back over, used that to get in.
24:28 And we wrote a million dollars in orders.
24:31 Holy crap.
24:32 And the reason that happened was Sean John,
24:34 Puffy Daddy's clothing line, started at the same Magic convention in 1999.
24:38 On my left was FUBU.
24:40 Mhm.
24:40 They had a whole walkway.
24:41 Daymond's.
24:41 Yep.
24:42 So, Daymond John's walking by with LL Cool J and Evander Holyfield.
24:45 I still have the pictures of me as an 18-year-old
24:47 kid with LL Cool J and Evander Holyfield and Shannon.
24:50 She was there, my best friend was there with me.
24:51 And um we're at the booth,
24:54 and we got so lucky because Sean John's here, FUBU's here,
24:57 we're a little 20-ft booth,
24:59 and everyone has to stand in front of our booth waiting for their appointments.
25:03 Oh.
25:03 You picked a good spot.
25:04 By accident.
25:05 I don't want to take credit for it.
25:07 And so, we just started getting Mervyn's and uh Kohl's and Nordstrom.
25:13 We got Nordstrom, which was a big one for us, Mr.
25:16 Rags and Dr.
25:16 Jay's, which are big stores on the East Coast.
25:19 Yeah.
25:19 And we just started writing orders.
25:20 We didn't have a manufacturer yet.
25:22 Why?
25:22 It's all pre-orders.
25:23 We We had like a t-shirt printer in San Diego.
25:26 Not someone that could actually make sweaters and jackets and shoes
25:30 and hats and things we were selling that we didn't have.
25:33 And so, we got back from the convention,
25:35 we went to what's called the Apparel Mart in downtown LA,
25:38 and just started walking around asking people for manufacturers.
25:42 One guy screwed us over.
25:43 He charged us $36,000 for 12 samples.
25:45 Jeez.
25:46 For 12 samples?
25:47 Yeah.
25:48 Well, that's not what 12,000 a sample?
25:50 Exactly.
25:50 Which not It was supposed to be $36,000 for 1,200 units.
25:56 Oh my god.
25:57 You get Oh, you meant 12.
25:59 No, he just wanted to steal from us.
26:01 Oh, okay.
26:02 [laughter] And that was all the money you had, right?
26:03 Yeah.
26:03 You only had 43.
26:04 Yes.
26:05 And so, we ended up meeting this guy named Christopher Wicks.
26:08 He had the licenses to Hang Ten, Ocean Pacific, Body Glove, LA Gear,
26:13 and he ended up selling a brand called English
26:15 Laundry for over $100 million like a button-up shirt company.
26:18 That guy became our fearless leader.
26:21 He was had a big warehouse.
26:23 He helped make all of our clothes for us.
26:25 He helped us get us that licensing deal
26:27 for $9.5 million when we were 19 years old.
26:30 He got us a $9.5 million deal in the UK,
26:33 and his son and I are still really good friends, Christian Wicks.
26:36 That's awesome.
26:36 Many, many years later.
26:37 It's crazy how full circle life is.
26:39 Now you're friends with Damon.
26:40 Oh, yeah.
26:41 I think about that all the time.
26:42 That's why I'm never mean to anyone,
26:43 even if they're just starting out, because you never know.
26:45 Yep.
26:46 surpass you down the road.
26:47 I I think about like my very first meetings when
26:50 I was 18 years old were inside of FUBU's office, the FUBU ladies office.
26:55 We had a ladies division.
26:56 The ladies division did like 115 million dollars in 18 months.
27:01 FUBU did?
27:01 Yeah.
27:01 Started out the men's apparel.
27:03 That's crazy.
27:04 So, a guy named Elliot, he had the license to get FUBU ladies.
27:08 And um So, crazy story.
27:10 So, right after Magic, there's a guy walks by me.
27:13 He's like, "I love your t-shirt." I was like, "Well, it's our brand.
27:15 It's over there." He's like, "You own the trademark Who's Your Daddy?
27:18 You got to be at our convention next week.
27:20 It's called the Action Sports Retail Show, ASR." In San Diego.
27:24 I'm like, "Oh, we live in San Diego." He's like,
27:25 "We've been sold out for like 10 months.
27:27 I'll give you a 10-ft booth.
27:29 You got to pay 3,500 bucks for it.
27:32 Um and I'm going to put you right by the check-in
27:34 desk where all 20,000 people have to check in.
27:37 You're going to be right there where they got to wait in line
27:38 in front of your booth." I was like, "Yes." Call my mom.
27:42 My mom makes 22 grand for the year.
27:44 And I'm asking her for $3,500 on her credit card.
27:47 This is a big deal for her, right?
27:48 Like, she makes two grand a month.
27:50 And she does it.
27:51 So, okay.
27:52 I I just wrote a million dollars in orders.
27:54 Believe in me.
27:55 My brother's telling me not to do it.
27:57 My partner's dad is like,
27:58 "Don't do it." They have My brother My partner's dad has a $200 million company.
28:03 They're like, "You can't even make the orders.
28:04 What are you going to another convention for?" I was like,
28:06 "We got to do this." It's in San Diego.
28:09 It's It's kismet.
28:10 We got to go.
28:11 So, we show up with like a couch and a rolling rack and a boom box.
28:15 And next to us is Calvin Klein.
28:18 But, we didn't realize this for a 4-day convention,
28:21 no one comes back to the check-in desk after day one.
28:25 So, it was crickets, a ghost town on day two, three, and four.
28:28 No one's there.
28:30 Why that matters is it changed my entire life,
28:31 and it changed the whole freaking world scenario.
28:34 Tens of millions of dollars happened because of this moment.
28:37 The head of Calvin Klein, his name was Carlos Vasquez,
28:40 was also working for FUBU ladies.
28:43 He's like, "Oh, whenever you come to New York, look me up.
28:45 Come by the office." Well,
28:47 I took that as an entrepreneur as Sunday night the convention ends at 6:00 p.m.
28:52 We're going to take a red eye at midnight to land in New York at 6:00 a.m.
28:55 and go to his office.
28:56 Mhm.
28:58 Without telling him.
28:58 There's no cell phones back then.
28:59 This is 1999.
29:01 So, 6:00 a.m.
29:03 rolls around.
29:03 I'm like, well, let's wait till 9:00 a.m.
29:05 to actually go there.
29:06 So, we go hang out at the bagel shop and just wait until 9:00 a.m.
29:09 9:01 we walk in.
29:12 Uh Missy Elliott's in there getting her clothing outfit.
29:15 Again, this is '99.
29:16 Yeah.
29:16 And um we walk up to the front desk and the lady was like,
29:19 you don't have a meeting with Carlos.
29:20 He has no meetings today.
29:21 He's flying back from Magic.
29:23 Like, oh, no, no.
29:24 We flew back from Magic or not Magic, from ASR.
29:26 We flew back from ASR.
29:28 Uh we have a meeting with him.
29:29 She's like, no, you don't.
29:29 There's no meetings with him today.
29:30 I I have a schedule right here.
29:32 And he happens to walk by with his luggage bag.
29:35 Wow.
29:36 And he was like, what are you guys doing?
29:38 We're like, you said to look you up when we come to town.
29:40 And he just started slow clapping.
29:42 Like, come on, you boys.
29:44 So, we're going in the back room.
29:46 We're going in his office and he's like, I want you to meet the CEO.
29:51 You're only probably going to get 5 minutes with him.
29:53 But 5 minutes will change your life.
29:54 This guy was a CEO for Jordache, Donna Karan, and Perry Ellis.
29:59 All billion-dollar companies.
30:01 And he owned the FUBU ladies license and he's helping.
30:04 So, we go into this meeting.
30:06 5 minutes becomes 4 and 1/2 hours.
30:08 What?
30:09 I learned more about business in those 4 and 1/2 hours when
30:11 I was 18 years old than I have learned my whole life.
30:14 Jeez.
30:14 He told me about every part of clothing, uh what a four-way rack does,
30:19 how the real estate there's a store within a store at every department store,
30:22 what slotting fees are, merchandising fees.
30:23 Everything burned in my brain is from that first meeting.
30:27 The president of Sean John came by, Jeffrey Tweedy, and he was like,
30:30 I'm not going to go to meet lunch with you.
30:31 I'm meeting with these boys.
30:32 You're going to work for them one day.
30:34 I still remember all these things from 20 years ago.
30:37 And so, the butterfly effect all stemmed from taking that booth for 3,500 bucks,
30:42 borrowing my mom's credit card to do it to reserve it,
30:45 showing up with a freaking couch to make a booth,
30:48 making friends with Carlos, going to meet him like the butterfly effect of that?
30:52 Because then we ended up doing millions of dollars revenue, partnership deals,
30:56 and all these things with that whole circle and crew because of that moment.
31:00 of events and networking, Matt.
31:01 That's why I go to events.
31:03 You know, you never know who you'll meet.
31:04 Just takes one person, right?
31:05 Change your life.
31:06 That moment changed my life.
31:07 Crazy.
31:08 You were 18.
31:09 Oh, yeah.
31:10 Why did he uh let you have 4 and 1/2 hours of his time?
31:14 I think he was fascinated by us.
31:17 The The name was such a big deal back then.
31:19 Who's your daddy?
31:20 Yeah, the catchphrase, the slogan,
31:21 the fact that we had the energy to do it
31:23 and go to these conventions and write a million dollars in orders,
31:26 like the fact that major chain stores were giving
31:28 us a shot when we were open with them.
31:31 Like we just started.
31:32 We're high school.
31:33 But we told them the story and they all like found it endearing.
31:36 Literally here.
31:37 I'm weird.
31:37 I'm like wearing the Manischewitz.
31:38 Like And uh they were like I said we
31:42 sold 100 t-shirts at lunch at 15 bucks each.
31:45 We felt like we're millionaires.
31:46 We made $1,500.
31:47 And I said, "But more importantly, they weren't just buying cuz of us.
31:51 Like we had on a table with the shirts and the hats,
31:54 and people would come by and we had like a girl would
31:56 just sit there and help sell for us for us at lunches.
31:58 And so it wasn't like we're doing Dana a favor.
32:01 And brother, $15 back then is a lot of money.
32:03 It's still a lot of money to a high school kid now.
32:05 Imagine back then.
32:07 And so we said we know that people will buy this.
32:10 People like this name, whether it's for sex, for comedy,
32:12 or for sports, they like the name Who's Your Daddy?
32:15 And so it just it worked.
32:17 And then when we got into the stores, it it sold really, really well.
32:21 Really, really well.
32:22 What happened to the trademark?
32:23 Do you still have it?
32:24 No, I mean we went public uh in 2005.
32:27 April 1st, 2005, we went public on the stock market when I was 23.
32:32 I did it another 4 years, so 2009.
32:34 Got into 55,000 retail stores through
32:37 Through 43 distributors for the energy drink under the same name.
32:41 And we had energy shots also.
32:43 All the casinos here had in every every hotel room.
32:45 I had billboards in front of the Planet
32:47 Hollywood casino like we were big back then.
32:50 We were the seventh largest drink out of the 900 drinks on the market.
32:54 And then on the 10-year anniversary I started 1999 on May 18th.
32:57 On May 18th 2009 I resigned.
33:00 You resigned?
33:02 During that One of the feather in my cap.
33:04 Yeah.
33:04 Why not?
33:04 I don't know.
33:05 I know.
33:06 Did your ego ever get crazy during that time
33:07 period cuz you were so young, so successful?
33:10 No.
33:11 I've always been calm about everything throughout this whole
33:13 time cuz I've watched a lot of people make money, lose money, go broke, die.
33:16 Yeah.
33:17 You know, my roommate at the time had passed away.
33:19 He was a number two NFL player in the league.
33:21 Wow.
33:22 Right behind Warren Sapp.
33:23 His name was Darrell Russell.
33:24 He passed away in a car accident.
33:26 And I just watched the butterfly effect over the situation that happened to him.
33:29 And one bad scenario what happened was all
33:32 over the news and made him get in depression
33:35 and then ended up in a car accident that he should never have been in that car.
33:39 And so I just think about how fleeting life is and so I don't ego stuff.
33:42 I don't have stuff.
33:43 I don't I don't own cars.
33:44 You never see me post about cars in my life.
33:46 I've had the same watch for since 2008.
33:48 No.
33:48 18 years I've had this watch.
33:50 I've replaced it once but it's the same watch.
33:52 I don't own any other watches.
33:54 So I don't post about bling bling and things like that.
33:56 Like it's not it's not my thing.
33:58 And so from an ego perspective I just know there's a lot
34:00 of people that are infinitely richer than me in multiple aspects of life.
34:05 And I've just watched a lot of people with egos crash and burn.
34:10 Same.
34:10 You never got caught up in comparing.
34:12 No.
34:12 No.
34:12 I I am still excited when my friend buys a cool car or buys
34:15 a cool watch or buys a builds a huge company or like I get ecstatic.
34:20 Even my competitors.
34:21 I feel like that's a rare thing these days.
34:23 It's a frame of mind.
34:25 It them going and getting cool watches, cool cars is inspiring me.
34:28 Them going and selling their company for a zillion dollars is inspiring to me.
34:33 And so, I don't like it when it's like a bad
34:35 person if I know they're a bad guy or just you know,
34:38 but I'm not jealous of them even if they're a bad person.
34:40 I'm still And by the way, when my competitors crush it, it inspires me, too.
34:43 I think that way, too.
34:44 When I see podcasts sell like Travel just sold for 200 million, I get excited.
34:49 That's good for everyone, I feel like.
34:51 Call Her Daddy, Steven Bartlett, like all these deals,
34:54 I'm like, "Oh my god, I'm so excited." Yeah.
34:57 And when I'm ahead of them for some time frame on the charts,
35:00 I don't think I deserve 100 million dollars because they got it.
35:02 It makes me work like, "What did they do?
35:04 Why did they do this?
35:04 How do they structure it?
35:05 What do they What do they What platforms are they using?" Like,
35:08 I want to understand it.
35:09 Exactly.
35:10 I am full-fledged cheering for them.
35:11 I message them all the time about it.
35:12 Like, I'm I love it.
35:13 Yeah, I think I think Diary of a CEO is going to be the number one show.
35:17 Sure.
35:17 I think he's going to be a billionaire.
35:19 Yeah, he's already nine figures and he's in his 20s or early 20s, I believe.
35:22 They're crazy.
35:23 I mean, it's super impressive.
35:25 Um you've met some of the most famous people in the world,
35:27 the most wealthiest people in the world, and you don't get a fan base at all.
35:30 Not at all.
35:31 You just treat them like a normal person.
35:34 What's really interesting is how normal most of them are.
35:37 There are a few people that are true celebrities, right?
35:40 You're around J.
35:41 Lo, you feel an aura.
35:42 She's a freaking megastar, right?
35:45 She's still Jenny from the block when you're at her apartment
35:47 and she's eating and talking like she's still a regular person.
35:50 Kim Kardashian is as famous as it gets.
35:52 When you're at her house with her kids, like she's mom.
35:55 She's a you know, she's a regular person.
35:57 And so, regular I use the word loosely cuz they you
36:00 have to have a bit of a screw loose to become legends,
36:03 to become a household name.
36:05 You have to have a bit of a screw loose to do
36:06 that cuz there's you're going to get ridiculed by half the world, right?
36:10 Half the people think J.
36:10 Lo sucks.
36:11 Half the people think Kim Kardashian is evil, like Right.
36:14 but the other half adore her.
36:15 Same thing happens in politics and musicians, everyone in between.
36:19 And so, it no one makes me like, "Oh my god,
36:23 they're a celebrity." There are people that I I idolize still,
36:26 Michael Jordan, right?
36:27 There's some characters in my life that I grew up on, but I
36:30 know that once I've got past that for a minute with Michael Jordan,
36:33 I would go play blackjack with him
36:34 or interview him on a podcast, perfectly calm.
36:37 Yeah.
36:37 There's very few characters, Elon Musk.
36:40 I'm so fascinated by a guy that has
36:41 four multi-billion dollar companies at the same time.
36:44 But after 2 minutes, I'm sure we just talk like boys, right?
36:47 And so when you really truly think about it,
36:50 there's there's no one that's been like
36:52 a oh my god superstar um outside of that.
36:56 Like Justin Bieber's a very regular guy, right?
36:59 Mega mega mega mega mega star
37:01 that just single-handedly sold out Coachella, right?
37:05 Yeah.
37:05 But if you would go play basketball with him 100%.
37:08 He's in a league than normal people.
37:12 Yeah.
37:12 When I joined your mastermind, that that was my first, I guess,
37:15 times meeting celebrities in person,
37:17 and I'm glad it it like opened my eyes up to it.
37:19 Now I don't get really starstruck, you know, with the podcast.
37:22 Well, you've interviewed so many of them now.
37:23 Yeah.
37:23 Well, like I definitely used to be that weird.
37:25 A lot of people are in this fanboy era,
37:27 and they look at these celebrities like a pedestal.
37:29 They still do.
37:29 You know, yes, they still do.
37:31 also important for our economy.
37:32 If that goes away, that literally changes the the whole world, for sure.
37:36 Think about why people watch TV shows, why they watch movies,
37:39 why they drink certain drinks, why they eat certain snacks,
37:42 why do they go to XYZ thing,
37:44 why do they go to concerts, why do they go to comedy shows?
37:47 Because it's Kevin Hart's brand.
37:49 Because it's J.
37:49 Lo performing at Caesar's Palace.
37:51 Because it's Justin Bieber performing at Coachella.
37:54 If that goes away, we're cooked.
37:56 Yeah, I agree.
37:57 Yeah, but that first mastermind was legendary.
37:59 Mark Wahlberg, you had Another opening speaker.
38:01 Yeah, Bruce Buffer did the intros.
38:03 You had, I think, Shaq, Floyd Mayweather.
38:05 Yep.
38:05 Uh Tyga performed.
38:07 Nick Cannon was a DJ.
38:09 Crazy.
38:10 Uh stacked.
38:11 Kris Jenner was on a panel.
38:12 Yeah.
38:12 She should be panel.
38:13 She was on a woman's panel.
38:15 I was like, what is she doing there?
38:16 Yeah.
38:17 It was a that was like a last-minute thing,
38:19 and she obviously should would a keynote um cuz she's a legend,
38:21 but like we were just jam-packed and I spent 3.2 million in one weekend.
38:25 Yeah, he was
38:26 to do do the opening and cuz we sold $10 million worth of spots in 7 weeks.
38:32 So it didn't feel real.
38:33 Like I've been throwing free events my whole life.
38:36 Elevator Night was free.
38:37 And then to announce it's a $100,000
38:38 per person mastermind and then sell out within
38:41 a couple months was like Power of social
38:43 media cuz you didn't even run ads, right?
38:44 It was all organic.
38:45 It was your ads.
38:45 Crazy.
38:46 That's the power of a brand.
38:47 Yeah.
38:48 $10 million in 7 weeks you said?
38:50 Yeah.
38:50 We had 100 members, sold out in 7 weeks.
38:53 Our very first event was November 1st, 2019.
38:57 And Bruce Buffer did the intro.
38:59 Mark Wahlberg was our first surprise interview.
39:01 No one knew.
39:01 That's the other thing is people bought
39:03 in for $100,000 not knowing what was going to happen.
39:05 Yeah.
39:06 And me not having any proof of previous
39:08 events outside of Elevator Night, a free event.
39:11 But they knew the pitch was you're going to be around
39:14 100 other people that are doing 10 million or more in revenue.
39:16 Yep.
39:18 Do you think that we can have you make or save 1%?
39:21 If you're doing 10 million and we help you make or save 1%, 100 grand free.
39:24 Exactly.
39:25 What if you're doing 18 million or 26 million or 42 million?
39:28 And then we're going to bring in 22 instructors that are doing
39:30 over 100 million revenue or or spending over 100 million on ads.
39:34 And then that mastermind that weekend I'll never forget I'll never forget it.
39:38 There's so many people I met at that event that I still talk to.
39:40 There's people I've done deals with.
39:42 I tell people all the time I made back my money tenfold,
39:45 maybe then 100x at this point at that mastermind, dude.
39:48 And that's why I have events.
39:49 What do you think about last night?
39:50 Packed, cool, right?
39:51 Yeah, it was packed.
39:52 Yeah, we had to shut down the doors at 9:00 cuz people
39:54 were uh people were posting it and like finding out about the event.
39:58 Right.
39:58 Cuz once the address gets leaked then Yeah,
40:00 I'm sure you've learned that at past events, too.
40:02 Yeah, we we always do the what you did also is put out the address last minute.
40:05 However, people nowadays can just share the location.
40:09 So even if you shut up us people in
40:11 Damn, I didn't think about that.
40:12 So I did the world's largest pizza festival a couple times.
40:15 And I had the last one, Steve Aoki and Lil Wayne.
40:20 The first time we had Tyga, 2 Chainz, Wiz Khalifa, it was super cool,
40:23 but it was like a decade ago, so you couldn't share your PIN.
40:27 The one after that, we didn't tell anyone the address.
40:30 It happened to be the same exact venue, no one knew.
40:32 And we shuttle bused them from UCLA parking lot.
40:35 It's a thousand people.
40:35 It's 900 girls, 100 guys, and there's no tickets for sale.
40:38 You don't have to buy a table or nothing.
40:41 And so, we have literally armed security down at the gate.
40:45 There was no way in, and you can only take shuttle buses to get in.
40:48 And I went to this.
40:49 Yes.
40:49 I flew in for that.
40:51 Yeah.
40:51 The problem was, people started sharing their PIN.
40:54 And not telling people,
40:55 and not realizing cuz they were on a shuttle bus when
40:57 they came in, they didn't realize there was armed guards down there.
41:00 On a one-way street.
41:02 And so, hundreds of cars started showing up trying to talk their way in.
41:05 Jeez.
41:06 There is no ticket.
41:07 There is no way in.
41:08 You have to be on a shuttle bus.
41:09 You literally cannot drive on cuz it's a residence.
41:11 It's a house.
41:13 And so, we had a interesting scenario.
41:15 There was little fire marshals and police, and helicopters,
41:17 and all that stuff that were going on behind the scenes of like,
41:19 "Get them out of here.
41:20 Get these cars going.
41:21 They are not coming in no matter And there was
41:23 household name celebrities and big big big big big name musicians,
41:26 rappers were like, "There's nothing we can do." Wow.
41:29 Nothing.
41:30 That's nuts.
41:30 I didn't even think about that.
41:31 Yeah, the PIN.
41:32 Yes.
41:33 That's crazy.
41:33 That was a great event, though.
41:35 That was fun.
41:35 Man, that was your birthday, right?
41:36 Yes.
41:37 Yeah.
41:37 Yeah, you know how to throw a party.
41:39 It was expensive, but it was fun.
41:40 You've done a lot of them.
41:41 Yeah.
41:42 I do the birthday party every year cuz it's it's a lot for marketing.
41:45 It's a lot for fun.
41:46 It's like an excuse to get all
41:47 the influencers together and all the models together,
41:49 and they're all posting with each other.
41:51 Um and I'll typically bring in someone like a Travis Barker or a 2 Chainz.
41:55 I'll bring in a piece of talent to perform cuz
41:57 it makes it a memorable experience and a shareable experience.
42:00 Everyone's got their phones out.
42:02 And so, my birthday party I utilize it for the marketing and for the fun,
42:05 and then um if there's any revenue or sponsors, that all goes to charity.
42:09 So, that's how I always orchestrate it.
42:11 that.
42:11 What are the most common event mistakes you see
42:13 for people that are looking to throw events or attend events?
42:16 There's a couple of key things that make people want
42:18 to leave a party or or be mad about a party.
42:22 Getting in.
42:22 People do not want to wait.
42:25 VIPs definitely don't want to wait, but they regular people or regular people
42:28 that are just regular attendees or acquaintances,
42:30 they don't want to wait either.
42:31 So, getting in fast and effectively.
42:34 Cleanliness.
42:35 If your bathrooms are messy or there's no toilet paper
42:38 or there's no paper towels or people remember that stuff.
42:41 If it's bad in there, it's bad.
42:45 Yeah.
42:44 Food.
42:45 That's what people are there for, right?
42:47 They want food and drinks.
42:50 Mhm.
42:49 And lastly, the AV.
42:52 If your AV sucks, you cannot have a good event.
42:54 Mhm.
42:54 Yeah, I don't think about that one.
42:55 It's so annoying.
42:57 Imagine you've got Trick and Wyclef on stage
43:00 and it's or you can't hear him or whatever.
43:02 Oh my god, it's so nice.
43:03 So, we just have rules about get them in fast,
43:07 keep it clean, feed them, and get them out.
43:10 Yeah.
43:10 Yeah, the food's important.
43:12 Mhm.
43:12 I I would say top three.
43:14 And it's not that you have to have the fanciest of food.
43:16 It's that you have to have quality food that's hot.
43:18 Right.
43:19 And so, I'd rather if let's say you're throwing an event from 8:00 p.m.
43:21 to midnight, I'd rather you have food coming at 8:00,
43:24 10:00, and 12:00 on the way out.
43:26 Mhm.
43:27 What people do is they front load it all at 8:00 o'clock.
43:29 Yeah.
43:29 All the food shows up at 8:00 o'clock.
43:31 What about at 10:30?
43:32 A lot of people show up to your party at 9:30 or 10:00,
43:34 they go over the food, the burgers are cold,
43:37 the hot dogs are not called hot dogs anymore.
43:40 The salad is melted.
43:41 Like it's Like you just it's bad.
43:43 Valid.
43:44 And so, staging your food is a very useful trick.
43:47 Best events other than your own that you've been to?
43:50 Um 10X, obviously Grant Cardone's.
43:52 That's the first conference I ever went to.
43:54 That's unreal.
43:55 Yeah.
43:55 Yeah, I mean, but Grant's spending 8 million, 12 million to put on a production.
43:58 That's a whole 'nother world, right?
44:00 The Growth Con is amazing.
44:02 Um Russell Brunson's Funnel Hacking Live.
44:06 Mhm.
44:06 That is 4,000, 5,000 plus people and he just runs it so clean.
44:11 Very quality PS.
44:13 Such a great room.
44:15 Um Traffic and Conversion Summit.
44:18 That one was big.
44:19 That was like 10,000 people show.
44:20 They stopped doing that one, right?
44:22 Yes.
44:22 All three of those brands stopped this last year.
44:24 I've noticed that.
44:25 I want to get your opinion on that.
44:26 Um Summit at Sea, Summit Series.
44:30 That's more expensive.
44:31 It's like a $4,000 base ticket.
44:33 Um they just had Summit at Sea recently.
44:35 And events.com just bought them.
44:37 So they're going to scale that that brand up a lot.
44:40 Um Wonder Well, yeah.
44:44 That's the Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi
44:46 have the what's called the Zenith Mastermind.
44:48 It's $250,000 to be a member.
44:51 It's only a few dozen members cuz he's
44:53 not letting the what's called the the Lions.
44:55 He has 600 plus members in Lions.
44:58 Um but he's not marketing to them.
45:00 He's getting really interesting like billionaires and real
45:02 estate developers and the Brian McKnight, the singer,
45:06 and the guy with $2 billion of commercial developments,
45:09 and a guy with a $100 billion fund, like very interesting characters.
45:12 Um And so yeah, I've been going there for a year
45:15 and a half and that's really impressive group that he's put together there.
45:18 That's the most expensive uh mastermind I've ever seen, I think.
45:21 Yeah, quarter million dollars is for sure.
45:22 And he deserves it.
45:24 It's Tony Robbins and Dean, you know.
45:26 Um and they put on such an experience.
45:28 It's 3 days at like the Breakers Hotel or 3 days at this mansion
45:32 and estate and they they bring in some really cool surprise performers.
45:35 So they've done it on the highest level.
45:38 Nice.
45:38 Yeah.
45:39 It's a good list.
45:40 I haven't been to Summit.
45:42 Um what was the other one you said before that?
45:44 Traffic and Conver- Traffic and Conversion Summit.
45:46 But Summit I just saw recently people were saying
45:48 it was amazing and that's not on a a boat.
45:51 So they do multiple events a year,
45:52 but called Summit Series, then they do Summit at Sea.
45:55 Okay.
45:56 And Summit at Sea is impressive.
45:58 Yeah, I feel like when you're on a cruise
45:59 ship you're a little more easy going, right?
46:02 Yes.
46:02 Feel like it's a mental thing.
46:03 That's important with the vents, too.
46:04 The the mind framing, right?
46:06 Yeah, the problem for most events is they do it in a hotel ballroom Right.
46:09 with regular lighting and they expect you to just
46:11 sit there and be focused for 10 hours a day.
46:14 It's not going to It doesn't work anymore with the attention spans.
46:16 Yeah.
46:17 You back You line up 10 speakers back-to-back,
46:19 people are yawning by the fourth speaker.
46:20 It's also why, you know, at like Aspire Tour, we don't do hour-long speeches.
46:24 It's a lot of 20-minute, 25-minute, 20-minute, 25-minute, 20-minute, 25-minute.
46:28 Um cuz we're in an ADD society.
46:31 And there's some people we need to give a full 40 minutes to like fully explain,
46:34 you know, what's going on.
46:35 If they're teaching something like taxes or real estate or finance,
46:39 um but for the more emotional speeches or motivational speeches,
46:42 it's like 20-minute, 25-minute, let's go.
46:44 Because Makes sense.
46:44 the room um has ADD.
46:47 Yeah.
46:47 You know?
46:47 Like the event we did yesterday at Delilah,
46:50 it was 10- to 20-minute speeches, all of them.
46:52 I love that.
46:54 That I could actually sit down and probably listen from to end.
46:57 But like a full keynote these days that's an hour, I just It's hard.
47:00 It's hard.
47:00 It's hard.
47:00 Unless you have like an amazing storyteller like Ed Mylett or someone
47:03 like legend like I can tell a full story and you're
47:05 like watching a movie is what it feel watching a movie
47:08 is what it feels like and then people are crying, that's different.
47:10 But like Sure.
47:11 listening to a technical discussion for an hour is pretty tough.
47:14 Yeah.
47:14 Let's end off with the zoo.
47:15 How's that going?
47:17 The zoo is very cool.
47:18 We have 208 208 animals there um with the real Tarzan.
47:22 Uh we're going into almost our fourth year.
47:24 August will be year four since we got the place.
47:27 It's not open to the public, so it's not a zoo in that perspective.
47:30 It's an animal sanctuary.
47:31 Hollywood wouldn't let you do that, right?
47:33 They would, but they wouldn't.
47:34 And so I don't want to sit and argue with I
47:37 got multiple things I tried to do there in California very difficult.
47:39 The rules and politics are very frustrating.
47:42 I spent 1.3 million dollars building a 240,000 gallon lake
47:46 as a wedding video and I've never done a wedding.
47:48 What?
47:49 They wouldn't let you do weddings there?
47:50 No.
47:51 Wow.
47:51 They want me to get a CUP permit per wedding.
47:54 What's that?
47:55 A conditional use permit.
47:57 So let's say Shawn wants to get married on June 1st.
47:59 So Sounds cool.
48:01 You want to get married at the lake?
48:02 You're going to have goats and camels walk in from our zoo with you.
48:04 It's going to be a beautiful wedding.
48:06 Problem is I can't guarantee you June 1st.
48:08 I have to go get a CUP permit from the county office and they barely respond.
48:12 And so, I've been in this weird scenario like I can't promise Shawn, "Hey,
48:16 you're going to be able to do your wedding June 1st." cuz I don't know.
48:19 I have to wait and see if the county's going to respond.
48:21 So, they're just so backed up that they're not responding to people.
48:23 I don't know if they're they're backed up
48:24 or it's their excuse or they're That's a shame
48:27 cuz your venue would be one of the best
48:28 in the country cuz you have all the animals.
48:30 People love animals.
48:31 I almost hired baby pigs at my wedding.
48:33 That's fun.
48:34 Yeah, yeah.
48:34 That looks so adorable, but wow.
48:37 Sorry you're going through that.
48:38 Yeah, it's been very expensive,
48:39 long struggle and journey and it's I love the property.
48:42 It's just hard and the rules in California very difficult.
48:44 Dude, for a lot of businesses,
48:45 not just what you're in, but I hear so many horror stories.
48:48 There's so many places shut down in LA.
48:50 It's wild.
48:51 Household name restaurants, businesses have been around for 20,
48:54 30, 40, 50, 60 years are gone now.
48:56 They just can't.
48:57 I mean, Elon got out of there with Tesla.
48:59 Yep.
48:59 That's billions of dollars that Cali lost.
49:02 It's a shame cuz of what it should be.
49:03 It's the best weather in the world.
49:05 That's why I live in California.
49:06 I pay for the weather.
49:08 However, the the rules make it so hard
49:11 for millionaires and so hard for business owners to succeed.
49:14 Yeah.
49:14 The estate tax too on the real estate was crazy.
49:17 Did you hear about that?
49:18 Oh, yeah.
49:18 The mansion tax.
49:19 Yeah, that was nuts.
49:20 But dude, this was great.
49:21 Um, where can people find you and the podcast and everything?
49:23 Uh, just @danfleyshman across every single platform.
49:26 Also, when you guys are making your own social media handles,
49:29 make sure it's the same name, same spelling, wear the same shirt, same glasses,
49:33 make it look the same so it's easy for people when they have the same bio.
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